Bringing Toys Into The Bedroom

Are you worried your male partner might feel threatened if you ask to bring a vibrator into the bedroom? I have three communication tricks for you to make sure that doesn't happen. Tip number one, Compare it to using tools outside of the bedroom. So if your guy is handy, say something like this to him. Hey, babe, when you're working on home improvement projects, do you think using a hammer or a screwdriver means you're less of a man or less competent? Of course not. Actually, it's the exact opposite. Being able to use those tools is a sign of competence and skill. Option number two, Compare it to lingerie. Say to your partner, hey, babe, when you ask me to wear lingerie in the bedroom, you're not saying that I'm less of a woman or not sexy enough without it, right? You just appreciate that lingerie is a fun addition to bring into the bedroom. Option number three, Remind your partner that you want to use the vibrator to together. Sometimes men hear the request to bring a vibrator into the bedroom, and they picture you using it on yourself and them just over in the corner by themselves doing nothing. But remind your partner that this is an addition to the bedroom, not a replacement. You want to play with the vibrator with them. Follow along for more relatable and realistic sex advice.