Short YouTube monologue by Vanessa Marin explaining that the clitoris and penis are biological equivalents made of similar tissues, that the clitoris has substantially more nerve endings ("two to three times" the penis), and that intercourse alone often does not provide enough clitoral stimulation for most people to orgasm; she urges partners to actively include clitoral stimulation during sex.
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Can you orgasm simply from having your balls stimulated? If the answer is no, then listen up, because you might need to learn a little bit more about the clitoris. So the clitoris and the penis are biological equivalents. They're made out of the same tissues. They're the most sensitive parts of the body, and they're what needs to be stimulated if we want to have an orgasm. Fun fact, the clitoris actually has two to three times the nerve endings of the entire penis. But let's be real, the clitoris tends to be treated as something that's extra or complicated. And in male female relationships, we tend to really focus on intercourse where. Where the clitoris isn't getting a lot of the action. Instead, intercourse stimulates the vagina, which just does not have a lot of nerve endings. That's why I made the comparison to playing with your balls. It might feel good, it might be enjoyable, but for the vast majority of people, it's just not enough stimulation to lead to orgasm. So if your partner has a clitoris and wants to have orgasms, you need to make sure the clitoris is invited to the party, just the same way you would assume that the penis is invited to the party.