Vanessa Marin, a licensed therapist, and her husband Xander introduce their channel on relationships and sex. They offer practical advice and tools to help couples improve their connection while removing shame from these conversations.
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You love your partner and you know that they love you too. So why does your relationship feel so damn hard sometimes? How can the person you love the most in this world drive you batshit crazy just by breathing in the wrong way? How is it possible to get into a fight that lasts two solid days over something as basic as your partner forgetting to buy your favorite granola at the grocery store? Relationships can feel impossible sometimes, but it does not have to be that way. It is possible for you to have an exceptional relationship without years of therapy or reading a mountain of sad self help books that you had to buy on Amazon because you were mortified by the thought of someone seeing you buy them in person. Hey there. I'm Vanessa Marin. I'm a licensed therapist and I am here to help you take your relationship and sex life from ordinary to extraordinary with no nonsense advice and simple practical tools. And I'm Xander Marin, her husband. Vanessa and I have our own relationship struggles just like everybody else, but we've also worked really hard to create an incredible marriage. I love popping into these videos to share lessons that we've learned along the way. Things like how to apologize Even when you're 1000% certain you didn't do anything wrong, and how to ask for what you want in the bedroom even if your face is rather than a tomato. Have you ever thought about the fact that you never learned how to have a great relationship? I mean, really, where did you learn how to communicate clearly and effectively? How to compromise on tough issues? How to resolve recurring problems? Where did you learn how to be wildly confident in the bedroom? How to know what you want during sex and how to ask for it, and how to be present in the moment so you actually enjoy being intimate with your partner. I'm willing to guess you never learned any of that, right? None of us did. But here's the thing. Life is just too short and your relationship is too important for you to struggle so much. So, Xander and I want to bring joy into your relationship and sex life by obliterating the shame and embarrassment that we have all been taught to have around sex. Filling you with inspiration and hope that things could be different, and sharing the accurate information and actionable relationship tools that you deserve. And we want to make you laugh along the way. On our channel you'll find videos like how to repair your relationship after a bad fight, the surprising reasons why your sex drive may have vanished, the comprehensive guide to female orgasm, and how to keep the spark alive in a long term relationship. And you'll probably get some guest appearances from our pugs, Winston and Maggie. So make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss out on any of the fun. And you can always check out our website@vmtherapy.com to find out more about our online courses and personal coaching. So welcome. We can't wait for you to get started.
