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Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander explore edging, where one partner brings the other close to orgasm but stops before finishing. Vanessa frames it as a way to understand what many women experience regularly in their sex lives.

Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander explore edging, where one partner brings the other close to orgasm but stops before finishing. Vanessa frames it as a way to understand what many women experience regularly in their sex lives.
I didn't have an orgasm with any partner until I met my husband. So today, I'm gonna make my husband experience what it's like to have, but not get to orgasm.
What?
Okay, so tell me, what's it like to have and not be able to finish?
Fucking sucks. Can I go, like, take care of myself?
No, you have to go about the rest of your day just having not done.
I'm hot and bothered in not the right way.
Can you imagine that? This was my entire life for very, very many years. And it's most women's lives. Awesome.
That's awful. I want you to. You and everybody else out there who's not, because this sucks.
What did it feel like when I just stopped?
That was so sad. Why are we stopping? It was just getting.

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