A short YouTube clip by sex therapist Vanessa Marin introducing dirty talk as an underrated sexual and communication skill. Marin outlines benefits (increased arousal, better self-knowledge, moment-to-moment communication), lists common barriers (lack of creativity, fear of sounding stupid, low confidence), and promises tools, tips, and techniques to build comfort and confidence; viewers are directed to the caption for more details.
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When she's on top going crazy, then suddenly stops and says, you love this you, don't you? That's a bit of me.
Listen up if you're thinking I want to be able to turn my partner on like that, but I don't have anywhere near that level of confidence. As a sex therapist, I think that dirty talk is one of the most underrated skills. It's a huge turn on for you and your partner. It can help you get to know what you like, and it's really valuable communication to have in the moment. The problem is most of us just don't feel very comfortable with it. I hear things like I'm uncreative, I don't know what to say, I'm worried about sounding stupid in the moment, and I just don't have the confidence to even say anything. So I've got your back. I decided to put together all of my best tools, tips and techniques for helping you get comfortable and confident with dirty talk. Check out the caption for all the details.