Do you only touch your partner when you want sex?

Name: Do you only touch your partner when you want sex?
Uploaded: 2024-06-12T10:00:06+00:00
Duration: 40 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa Marin explains how touching your partner only during sex trains them to distrust your touch and pull away. She offers questions to ask about…

12 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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Vanessa Marin explains how touching your partner only during sex trains them to distrust your touch and pull away. She offers questions to ask about non-sexual affection and how to rebuild trust through caring contact.

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Hey guys, do you only touch your partner when you want sex? If so, here's why that's a big problem. You're training her not to trust you to be suspicious of your intentions, because it feels like the only time you touch her, you want something. You're training her to have what's called the bristle reaction where she actually starts avoiding and recoiling from your touch. And that's because you're not touching her for her. You're selfishly using her body for your own pleasure. So if you can see this starting to happen in your relationship, you here's some questions that you need to ask her. What are your favorite non sexual ways of being touched? How can I make it clear that I'm touching you for you and not for me? So let me know down in the comments. Do you know your partner's favorite non sexual way to be touched?