Do you tell your partner when you have a crush on other people?

Name: Do you tell your partner when you have a crush on other people?
Uploaded: 2023-11-29T11:00:25+00:00
Duration: 32 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa Marin discusses whether romantic partners should tell each other when they develop crushes on other people. She frames it as a conversation every…

29 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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Vanessa Marin discusses whether romantic partners should tell each other when they develop crushes on other people. She frames it as a conversation every couple should have, noting people will disagree: some want to hear because it adds ‘charge’ while others prefer not to know because it causes hurt or paranoia.

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I think that this might be one of the questions that people will disagree with us the most on. Yeah. And so I do think that this is a good conversation for every couple to have of, like, hey, if we were to develop a crush on somebody else, would you want to hear about it? Because I want to acknowledge, like, people are going to have very different feelings about this. There are some couples who'd be like, yeah, I want to hear about it, because that actually turns me off. It brings a little charge into the relationship. Yeah. Whereas other people are like, do not tell me about it. I don't want to know. That's just going to, like, hurt my feelings and make me feel. Feel paranoid.