Does Smut Help Your Secs Drive? 📖 👀

Name: Does Smut Help Your Secs Drive? 📖 👀
Uploaded: 2026-04-08T17:25:29+00:00
Duration: 50 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: In this conversational excerpt, Vanessa Marin discusses how romance novels or shows can serve as a ‘preheat’ to help partners get in the mood, especially…

8 Apr 2026 · 1 min

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In this conversational excerpt, Vanessa Marin discusses how romance novels or shows can serve as a ‘preheat’ to help partners get in the mood, especially for mothers who need a mental transition from ‘mom mode’ to ‘partner mode.’ She explains that reading provides a relaxed brain state and visual stimuli, which facilitates this shift, making it a useful tool for women seeking intimacy after caregiving duties.

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I'm curious your thoughts on like using a like romance novel or show as kind of like a preheat to get someone in the mood.
So especially for moms, I think you have to incorporate a transition. You just can't go from mom mode into partner mode. It just doesn't happen. So you have to come back home to yourself first before you can connect with your partner. Everybody's reading, you know, novels these days, and I think it's great, especially for women, because it gives your brain something to do. Research shows that our brains go into a more relaxed state when we're reading. So that naturally is going to help you, like, make that transition. And you're getting a stimuli too. You know, it's, it's making you think about making you picture it. So it's just a great way for women in particular.