Have you ever changed your mind about what you want in the bedroom?

Name: Have you ever changed your mind about what you want in the bedroom?
Uploaded: 2023-11-26T11:00:10+00:00
Duration: 16 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa and Xander Marin discuss a listener whose partner won't perform oral sex because she said no years ago. She wants it now but can't bring herself…

26 Nov 2023 · 0 min

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Vanessa and Xander Marin discuss a listener whose partner won't perform oral sex because she said no years ago. She wants it now but can't bring herself to ask. The conversation explores how sexual preferences change and why couples struggle to revisit old boundaries.

A woman who reached out to us on Instagram, and she said at the beginning of her relationship, there was one time where she had told her partner not to go down on her, and she said that he had taken that, like a blood oath, or she said. She said.
It felt as if we had just signed a blood oath.
Like, then he never went down on her ever again. Years or maybe even a decade later, where she's like, I. I want oral sex, but I feel like I've, like, slid this blood oath and now I'm not allowed to bring it up.
And he's probably like, I want to give you oral sex. I've been wanting to do it for years, and I felt like I couldn't.