The source is a short excerpt from a Vanessa Marin YouTube monologue about sexual leadership and assertiveness. In this chunk the speaker says they want leadership in bed but not to be bossed around — they want to be led when they are "in the mood" to be led, indicating consent and contextual preference for assertiveness.
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