How common are simultaneous orgasms?

Name: How common are simultaneous orgasms?
Uploaded: 2023-12-27T11:00:13+00:00
Duration: 52 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A short conversational transcript (Vanessa Marin with Xander Marin) arguing that simultaneous orgasms—commonly depicted in TV, movies, and porn—are…

27 Dec 2023 · 1 min

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A short conversational transcript (Vanessa Marin with Xander Marin) arguing that simultaneous orgasms—commonly depicted in TV, movies, and porn—are actually rare and hard to achieve in real life. The speakers stress that coordinating orgasms requires effort and explicit communication because partners tend to have different timelines and needs, which can otherwise create an unpleasant or stressful experience.

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There's also pressure to orgasm simultaneously because let's face it, that is the only.
Way we ever see.
Sex happening on tv, movies, porn. Like they always orgasm in the exact same moment every single time. Then they make it.
Seem so easy, so natural, so effortless. Like that's just how it happens. In reality though, simultaneous.
Orgasm.
Is quite.
Rare and.
Very difficult to pull off. Even each partner.
Has different timelines that they tend to last different things that they need to like get them over that little hump. And so if you're aiming for orgasm like first of all it's going to be effort.
And there's going to need.
To be a lot.
Of communication involved.
So no silent sex leading up to a simultaneous orgasm.
And you're also probably going to be.
Put in the situation.
Where one partner.
Is trying to slow themselves down and the other partner is trying to hurry themselves up.
So just continue create like a really.
Unpleasant situation.
For both partners.