How Go Get Partner To Prioritize Pleasure

Ladies, does it feel like your partner doesn't prioritize your pleasure? If so, listen up. I'm going to venture a guess that your partner is a guy. Because quite honestly, we don't often hear questions like this from people whose partners are women. There are some guys out there who are just jerks and don't really care about their partner's pleasure at all. But the vast majority of guys do really care about pleasing their partner. They just don't know how we're going to assume that your guy is in this camp. So if you want your guy to prioritize your pleasure, think about and then tell him exactly what he can do that is going to prioritize your pleasure. We guys, we really like having things clearly spelled out for us. We may also need it to counteract some feedback that we've gotten in the past. Now here's what I hear from a lot of guys. They've been with someone in the past where they did try to prioritize their pleasure and maybe she wasn't very comfortable with receiving and she pushed him away. So he goes into a new relationship thinking, alright, I'm not going to try to do this unless she asks because she probably doesn't want it, especially if that's happened many times. So give us that feedback. Just tell us what you want and we're happy to oblige. If you feel like you have given your partner that feedback and he just is not listening, let me know down in the comments and I'll jump in with some more advice.