I just don't get why we've been feeling so disconnected in our sex

Name: I just don't get why we've been feeling so disconnected in our sex
Uploaded: 2024-12-18T11:00:36+00:00
Duration: 26 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A short two-speaker transcript (from a Vanessa Marin YouTube piece) in which one speaker lists repeated yes/no prompts identifying common relationship…

18 Dec 2024 · 0 min

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A short two-speaker transcript (from a Vanessa Marin YouTube piece) in which one speaker lists repeated yes/no prompts identifying common relationship behaviors that cause sexual and emotional disconnection — e.g., phone distraction, surface-level conversation, prioritizing chores/kids, avoidance of touch and intimacy, lack of gratitude and date nights. The piece reads like a rapid checklist of relationship habits that erode closeness.

I just don't get why we've been feeling so disconnected lately.
Are you glued to your phones when you're together?
Yes.
Are your conversations mostly surface level or logistics based?
Yes.
Do you prioritize chores over quality time together?
Yes.
Do you prioritize the kids over each other?
Yes.
Do you ignore each other when you walk into the room?
Yes.
Do you criticize and complain more than express gratitude?
Yes.
Do you forget to plan date night?
Yes.
Do you avoid touching each other because you're worried it might lead to something more?
Yes.
Do you avoid talking about intimacy?
Yes.
Do you avoid expressing your needs or desires?
Yes.
I have no idea.