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Xander Marin watched Vanessa get her MFT license, build a business from nothing, and go through grad school. He felt inadequate watching her do it, convinced he could never accomplish something like that himself.

Xander Marin watched Vanessa get her MFT license, build a business from nothing, and go through grad school. He felt inadequate watching her do it, convinced he could never accomplish something like that himself.
I love how this person didn't ask, like, does Xander feel a certain way about this? And jump straight to inadequacy issues. I don't anymore, but I definitely did. Well, first of all, I watched Vanessa build this business from scratch. I watched. And before that, I watched Vanessa, you know, go to grad school to become a therapist, to get licensed, to get her MFT license. It was a lot of work. And, I mean, I was very proud of her. And I remember also thinking just internally, like, wow, I could never do something like that.

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