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Vanessa Marin and a guest debate what it means to feel truly seen in a relationship. One frames it as essential intimacy; the other calls that expectation a red flag, suggesting it implies something is broken.

Vanessa Marin and a guest debate what it means to feel truly seen in a relationship. One frames it as essential intimacy; the other calls that expectation a red flag, suggesting it implies something is broken.
Like, this feeling of being truly seen and understood by each other. Like, that's not a request you can make of your partner. Like, I would like you to see me more. I would like you to understand who I am on a core level.
Honestly, that would feel like a big, like, red flag. Like, ooh. Like, one, that doesn't mean a lot. And two, if you are saying that there's fundamentally something wrong or missing in our relationship.

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