A short YouTube conversation (hosts Xander Marin and Vanessa Marin) exploring the different kinds of nudity in long-term relationships — distinguishing functional nudity (changing clothes/shower), intentionally showing off, and more ambiguous/testing moments — and how intentions affect partner reactions. The clip gives concrete examples of times when nudity is unwanted, unnoticed, or used to test a partner's response.
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When it comes to being naked in a long term relationship, there's multiple types of nakedness, of nudity. Like, maybe there's sort of functional nudity, like, oh, I'm, I'm taking my clothes off because I'm putting some other clothes on or whatever.
Functional nudity.
Versus, Versus, you know, giving your partner a little, like a little show, maybe a show is too far, but kind of, you know, putting some effort into like, oh, hey, like, check me out or look at this, or something like this. I think that it has more to do with your intention, perhaps.
When are we wanting? Because there. I think this is kind of a funny game that a lot of us women play. There are some times where we get naked and you get turned on and we're like, oh, leave me alone. I'm just trying to get into the shower. So there are some times where it's like, it can feel annoying to us or we're like actively trying to tell you, like, don't look at me in that way. And then there are other times where you don't notice and we're like, why don't you notice me?
Or like, or like you're testing, like, oh, let me just get, like, let me take my clothes off and you know, not really be putting any effort into showing my partner that I'm naked. Let's just see what he does.