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Vanessa Marin and a guest debate what sex drive really is. Marin calls it a luxury indicator of health. Her guest pushes back: calling it a drive is wrong because you don't need it to survive, only the species does.

Vanessa Marin and a guest debate what sex drive really is. Marin calls it a luxury indicator of health. Her guest pushes back: calling it a drive is wrong because you don't need it to survive, only the species does.
Our sex drive is an indicator of our overall health and well being. Our sex drive is a luxury for our body.
Well, I mean, in a way, the word drive is a bit of a misnomer because that implies that it's sort of like a necessity, like, say, eating or drinking or something like that. Where it's like if you don't eat after some number of days, you will die. If you don't drink after far fewer days, you will die. Like it is a requirement to stay alive. There's no other option. Drive is not the same thing. It's not like a survival mechanism. I mean, it's a survival mechanism for the species, but not for an individual.

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