Vanessa Marin and Xander discuss a married couple's sexual dynamic where the wife cringed at a behavior early on, and the husband didn't mention it until nine months in. They debate who should fix it: the partner who didn't speak up, or the one who didn't ask.
Okay. So, Xander, whose shit is this?
I'm gonna say there's. On both sides.
I think it's his to deal with. Tell me why you think this is her.
He said he confided this nine months in. I'm curious how long it's been now. Past that. I think it's been a while, because she's talking about countless fights, and they're.
They're married.
Yeah, they're married. So I think what's her is like, from fairly close to the beginning, she knew that she was not into this and that it was. She was cringing, and she really hated it. She doesn't want to interact sexually in that way. That's an. A key element of their relationship that she didn't take action on earlier.