A short transcript excerpt from a Vanessa Marin YouTube video ("Is your partner excited to see you naked?") in which Vanessa and another speaker discuss what partners think about a person's body during sex. The tone is conversational and anecdotal; themes include body awareness, partner perception, and self-consciousness during intimate moments.
Let me ask you the really tough question. What are you thinking about? My body during sex.
Fucking love it. I'm thinking about what I'm gonna do to it. I'm turned on by it. I'm excited by it. Like, it's.
Hard to believe sometimes. I'm like, he's. He's gotta have had the thought that, like, my boobs are in my armpit sometimes or.
There's a differentiation for me between the. The thought or the observation. Your body is following the laws of physics and then the judgment. I'm not trying to say, oh, no. Like, none of these things ever happen. I'm not saying these things aren't real. We all have bodies. They all hang in certain ways. That's life. But the judgment of it, like, oh, I see that, and I don't like it. Or like, that turns me off or whatever. Like, that doesn't cross my mind. I'm like, yeah, like, we're having sex and we're in this angle. Like, of course that is gonna happen. It would be weird if it didn't happen.