Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?

Name: Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?
Uploaded: 2025-01-02T11:00:24+00:00
Duration: 32 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A short clip of relationship coach Vanessa Marin advising against ultimatums in relationships. She argues that ultimatums position partners against each…

2 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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A short clip of relationship coach Vanessa Marin advising against ultimatums in relationships. She argues that ultimatums position partners against each other, whereas reframing problems as a shared team issue (‘you and me against our issues’) promotes collaborative conversations and healthier outcomes.

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Ultimatums set you against each other. If you don't do this, I'm gonna do that. When the reality is that we should be viewing relationships as though we are a team. Like, it's you and me against our issues, not it's you and me against each other. Yeah. So if we can have conversations about, like, hey, this is something weird or feels off or I don't like, how do we handle this together as a team that just has a completely different vibe to it, and it's gonna be way more. It.