Short excerpt from a YouTube conversation (Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin) about perceptions of female masturbation techniques. Vanessa relays that many women feel embarrassed about their masturbation methods and worry they are 'wrong' or unsexy; Xander responds that he finds the act of self-pleasure inherently sexy and not gross.
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So one thing that I hear from women all the time is I'm embarrassed of the technique that I use to masturbate. And by the way, I've heard this about literally every single technique, but every woman seems to think, like, the way I masturbate is wrong or bad or it's not sexy, or, like, in particular, like, a guy wouldn't like watching it. So I want to come over to you to get your male opinion of female masturbation technique.
I mean, I want to. I want to know how you do it, and I want to see how you do it. I can't think of any way where I'd be like, oh, that's gross. Like, it's just the act of doing it, of making yourself feel good and bringing yourself to orgasm. That's what's sexy.