Pillow Princess

25 Dec 2023 · 1 min
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A short YouTube video by Vanessa Marin (uploaded Dec 25, 2023) defining "pillow princessing" (aka "starfishing") as when a woman largely lies passively during sex. Marin notes occasional passive receiving is fine but argues it’s unfair if one partner is always passive and leaves responsibility for pleasure entirely to the other; she emphasizes participation and balance during intercourse.

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