Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin explain how purity culture creates guilt, shame, and difficulty with pleasure and body image. They normalize these experiences, remind you the shame was taught, not your fault, and say a healthy sex life is possible after that background.
Every day we get messages from this community about the ways that growing up in purity culture has harmed your sex life. You're dealing with feelings of guilt and shame around sex. You have a hard time experiencing pleasure, and you even feel like your body is shameful or sinful.
However, it is possible to have a healthy sex life even after growing up in purity culture.
It's important to recognize that this is not your fault. You were not born feeling ashamed of sex, you were taught to be, and you're not alone. More people are dealing with this than you might think, which is why we.
Recorded podcast episode on this exact topic. Check out Pillow Talks episode eight through the link in our bio.