Should you put up with this in your relationship or marriage? #marriageadvise #marriedcouple #couple

Name: Should you put up with this in your relationship or marriage? #marriageadvise #marriedcouple #couple
Uploaded: 2025-05-30T18:54:01+00:00
Duration: 49 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A short YouTube clip from Vanessa Marin (VM Therapy) addressing relationship dynamics around oral sex. Speakers identify socialization and discomfort…

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A short YouTube clip from Vanessa Marin (VM Therapy) addressing relationship dynamics around oral sex. Speakers identify socialization and discomfort with technique as common reasons some men refuse to perform oral sex, challenge stigmas about masculinity, and promote VM Therapy’s foreplay guides (vmtherapy.com) as a resource.

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A lot of men come away with this sort of like, toxic idea that like, oh, they don't want to do that or like, my friends will make fun of me or something. And we think that's bull. Very often when it comes to not wanting to perform oral, there's the, you know, there's needing to like, set aside the socialization part of like, hey, who cares what somebody else would say? Like, this is about you and your partner and like giving your partner the pleasure that they want. The stereotypical example is a dude who loves getting and was like, no, I'm not going down on you. So usually it's a combination of that plus also a guy not being that comfortable with his technique because that is such. And we do have a resource for that. Oh, we do. Our foreplay guides. Check them out@vmtherapy.com foreplay oh yeah, we've changed a lot of lives with those foreplay guides. Sure have.