The real story behind our intercourse guide

Before I met my husband Xander, I faked every single orgasm. Get ready with me while I explain why I created an in depth guide to helping make intercourse more pleasurable for both partners. Despite knowing how to orgasm on my own, and despite studying to become a sex therapist, I still didn't feel very much pleasure during intercourse. And I didn't know how to advocate for myself in the bedroom. What I eventually figured out is that the way that we see intercourse on TV and definitely in porn is all about the male experience. So I was having sex and you're probably having sex. That was all about him. What I eventually realized is that I was definitely not alone. We recently polled our community of 500,000 people and found that 91% of women say that intercourse is not their favorite sexual activity. Together, my husband Xander and I set out to create specific techniques that would ensure that both partners have an equally pleasurable experience. There are 42 sexy and realistic positions with detailed instructions about how to get into and out of each one, how to move in each one, and how to make adjustments that'll work for your unique bodies. There are tips on orgasmic timing. There are specific combinations of positions depending on what kind of mood you're in and what to do if you feel self conscious. As a licensed sex therapist, I found that people have a really hard time taking the next step after they've realized that their sex life isn't what they want it to be. And no, I can't just come into your bedroom and tell you what to do because that would be weird for all of us.