Vanessa and Xander Marin are back in couples therapy after doing it early in their relationship. They're working through mismatched sex drives and a fading spark, issues they also wrote about in their book Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.
Surprise. We are back in couples therapy.
Couples therapist and husband in couples therapy.
This is not our first experience in couples therapy.
No.
We did some couples therapy back in the beginning of our relationship. We talk about it a little bit in our book, sex talks, the five conversations that will transform your love life. We were, you know, just struggling with mismatched sex drives. With the spark fading in our relationship.
We are not special. Despite what I think, a lot of people think when they see us, like, oh, they got everything under control. Their sex life is perfect. Their relationship is perfect. They never need any help. It wasn't like this easy slam dunk situation for us to even get into therapy. Like, it's something that we all struggle with.