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If you have been faking, you could say something to your partner like, hey, I've been noticing that what used to work for me, it's just not working the same anymore. So obviously this is a lie, but it is giving your partner and yourself, like, a really gentle out, Like, a gentle way of being able to talk about it without having to, like, fully come clean about everything that's been going on. So you're really presenting it as, like, yeah, it's not. It's not anything about you. It's just something that I've been noticing for myself. I would love for us to explore other techniques, other ways of bringing us pleasure so you can still talk about it in this positive way of, like, yeah, I want to try some new things with you. Let's explore. It is true that over the course of our lives, what our bodies like and respond to really can change. So, like, this is a conversation that I think couples should get used to having with each other because you're going to have it at another point, too.