What are guys really thinking about during sex??

Name: What are guys really thinking about during sex??
Uploaded: 2024-02-19T11:15:00+00:00
Duration: 9 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A brief transcript excerpt from Vanessa Marin's YouTube video 'What are guys really thinking about during sex??' In this exchange a male speaker…

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A brief transcript excerpt from Vanessa Marin's YouTube video 'What are guys really thinking about during sex??' In this exchange a male speaker describes the experience of performing sex with a passive partner as ‘not very exciting,’ saying they quickly become self-conscious—worrying whether the partner enjoys it or would prefer something else—and end up focusing on finishing rather than enjoying the encounter.

Can you speak a little bit, like, about the male experience of having sex with somebody who's just, like, lying there? Like, what does that feel like for you?
Not very exciting. You very quickly get into your head, like, oh, does she like this? Like, is she enjoying this? Like, I wonder if she would prefer to be doing something else or in a different position. You just end up very deep in your own head and, like, okay, well, I'm just going to focus on my experience and, like, get this thing done. There's nothing fun or sexy or exciting about that.