What Comes First?

Name: What Comes First?
Uploaded: 2023-11-11T11:00:16+00:00
Duration: 22 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa and Xander Marin discuss whether emotional connection or sex comes first in relationships. A poll shows 77% of men prefer sex first while 86% of…

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Vanessa and Xander Marin discuss whether emotional connection or sex comes first in relationships. A poll shows 77% of men prefer sex first while 86% of women prefer emotional connection first. Three-quarters report this mismatch causes relationship problems.

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If you're in a long term relationship, this is probably true about you and your partner. One of you needs to feel emotionally connected before you have.
Sex, and one of you needs to have sex in order to feel emotionally connected.
When we polled our community, we found that 77% of men want sex first and 86% of women want emotional connection first. But that's not always the case.
Yeah, Vanessa and I are the opposite of the typical gender dynamic.
This is such a big issue that we even came up with a name for it, the physical emotional conundrum. 75% of people say that this dynamic causes problems in their relationship. So of course, the question that comes up is how do we solve this? Like, who gets their thing first? Right? And we do have an answer for you here. The answer is an emotional intimacy should come first. Stay tuned for part two where we explain why.