What Do Men Actually Want in the Bedroom

Vanessa Marin breaks down what half a million men said they want in bed. The top four: partners who initiate, take control, talk dirty, and actually enjoy it instead of faking.
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Want to know what men actually want in the bedroom? We polled our community of over half a million people to give you the answers. Here are the four most popular things that men said they want in the bedroom. Number one, he wants you to initiate. We all want to feel wanted. Plus, initiating just feels vulnerable and he doesn't want to be the only one ever doing it. Number two, he wants you to be active. Men don't like it when you just lie there quietly. He wants to have sex with you and he wants to know that you want to be there in the moment with him. And he might want you to even take control sometimes. Number three, he wants you to speak up. He wants you to tell him what you want, to give him feedback and to talk dirty. And number four, he wants you to feel pleasure. He doesn't want you to fake it. He really cares about your experience and wants you to feel good. Want to start giving him the kinds of experiences that he deserves? Check out the caption for your first step.
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