Short YouTube video (Vanessa Marin, May 18, 2024) reporting results from a community poll (~over half a million people) about what women want in the bedroom. The clip lists four main needs: (1) to feel connected and desired with partner presence, (2) help letting go/feeling safe (reducing mental load, shame, body-image issues), (3) slowing down with extended foreplay/teasing and ongoing flirtation/connection, and (4) partner care for her pleasure (acknowledging women report fewer orgasms and wanting parity). The piece closes with an encouragement to prioritize these experiences.
Want to know what women actually want in the bedroom?
We polled our.
Community of over half.
A million people to find out. Number one, she.
Wants to feel connected.
She wants to feel like you want to have sex with her, not just have an.
Orgasm.
And she wants to feel like you're.
Actually present in.
The moment with her. Number two, she wants you.
To help her let go.
She is carrying.
A lot.
Mental load, bad body image, shame and embarrassment.
About sexual stress.
She needs your.
Help inside and outside of the bedroom to feel safe enough.
To relax.
Into the moment with you. Number three, she wants you to slow down.
She wants foreplay.
That lasts all day.
Flirtation, communication, connection, touch. And not just.
In the moments that you want to have sex.
And she wants you to slow down in the moment too.
She wants you to.
Take your time.
Tease her.
Build up her anticipation and excitement.
And four, she.
Needs you to care.
About her pleasure.
She's having.
Far fewer orgasms.
Than you are.
She needs to.
Know that her pleasure.
And enjoyment are just as important to you as your own. Want to start giving her the kinds of experiences.
She deserves? Check out the caption for your first step.