A short conversational segment from a YouTube episode where hosts Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin discuss initiating sexual activity while asleep. They describe it as controversial, note they have experienced it a few times during their 16-year relationship, describe it as sometimes very arousing, and label the phenomenon 'sexsomnia,' noting it merits a separate episode.
Some people are totally cool with this. Some people absolutely hate it. Waking me up to initiate when I'm.
Asleep, that's another strong practice.
Very controversial one. So this is definitely one that you need to discuss with your partner. Are we open to this or not? We have done this a couple of times in our 16 years together and.
It has not.
Been some of the hottest sex of our entire relationship.
Oh, yeah. But I think the difference here is that neither of us were consciously like, oh, I woke up. I'm horny, I want to have sex. I'm going to wake her up to have sex. We were just both asleep. Who knows who started it?
You started it. Obviously you started it.
How would I know? I was asleep.
I know you started it.
I just woke up having sex with you.
That's called sexsomnia, friends. And that's a topic for another episode.