What she really means when she says…

If she's ever told you what you're doing is great in bed, listen up, because that may not be true. I think most of us straight guys have had this experience, right, where you're having sex. You ask her, what do you want to do next? And she goes, I don't know. What you're doing is great. So you might be thinking, hey, I must be doing a good job. Now, I hate to burst your bubble, but what is more likely happening is you ask the wrong question and she doesn't know what to say. The truth is, what do you want? Is actually a kind of lazy question. I. On the surface, it sounds nice. I mean, you're asking her what she wants, but it doesn't actually show any real effort on your part. It's like how we all get annoyed when our partner asks, what do you want for dinner? So instead of asking, what do you want? Give her two options. This shows that you've put some thought into what she might want, and it makes it easier for her to pick one out of two options rather than needing to come up with something on the spot. Do you want me to kiss you here or here? Do you want me to throw you into this position or that position? Ladies, let me know down in the comments if this would feel better for you.