A short YouTube video by Vanessa Marin in which she addresses why many people struggle to answer the question "What's your fantasy?" and recommends a simpler, more accessible reframing: ask yourself or a partner "What's one thing you're curious about trying?" rather than expecting an elaborate, certain fantasy.
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Have you ever had a partner ask you what's your fantasy? And felt like you had no clue how to answer? A lot of us really struggle with this question because we blow up fantasy to be this really big deal in our head. Like, it has to be very elaborate. We have to know that we're going to like it. It has to be this huge thing that majorly, majorly turns us on. But a lot of us just don't have things like that. If you do have something like that, totally cool. But a lot of us don't. So instead, this is a question that I think is so much more useful to ask yourself and ask your partner, what's one thing that you're curious about trying to.