Vanessa Marin (speaker) explains why she "almost never" turns down her husband, listing concrete relational behaviors that create emotional intimacy (reading the room, initiating respectfully, matching her initiation style, prioritizing her pleasure, not reacting negatively to refusals). She emphasizes that sexual/physical connection grows from everyday emotional connection and invites viewers to DM/comment "doorbell" to learn more.
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I almost never turn my husband down for because he reads the room and only initiates at appropriate and respectful times and because he knows my initiation style and initiates in ways I actually like because he knows that emotional intimacy is and we both do little things throughout the day to stay connected to each other because I don't expect to be in the mood when he initiates because he makes it clear he wants to connect with me and feel close to me not just get something from me because he cares about my pleasure and makes sure I have a good time because in the rare times that I do turn him down he doesn't pout or get angry and because we both think is an important part of a relationship. If you're craving this kind of intimacy it doesn't start in the bedroom. It starts with how you show up for each other outside of it. Want to learn how to build this kind of connection? Comment or DM us the word doorbell and we'll show you how.