Why You Need To Flirt In Your Relationship?

Name: Why You Need To Flirt In Your Relationship?
Uploaded: 2024-07-22T10:00:01+00:00
Duration: 40 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa Marin argues that couples often stop flirting after the initial 'winning-over' phase of a relationship, which prevents partners from discovering…

22 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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Vanessa Marin argues that couples often stop flirting after the initial 'winning-over' phase of a relationship, which prevents partners from discovering each other’s true preferences. She suggests that early courting behaviors mask honest feedback (people laugh along and avoid correcting partners), and implies couples should keep flirting and communicate specific likes/dislikes about how they are flirted with.

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Because flirting is something that we do at the very beginning of a relationship. This kind of, like, winning our partner over type of thing. I feel like a lot of us never really actually get the opportunity to discover what our partner actually likes or dislikes. Yeah. Because it's like you're just doing it at the beginning, where you and your partner, you know, this new person, new, exciting person. Like, you're not really giving each other open feedback and communication. Like, you're typically, like, you're laughing at all their jokes, and you're, like, going along with it. You're trying to make, you know, be the cool girl, make it seem like everything's clicking, like you're not going to tell your partner, hey, I actually don't like it when you flirt with me that way. Would you flirt with me this way instead.