Why you should use your finger

Any advice for men to be better at going down on women? Use the fingers. Yes, use the fingers. I know it's called oral, but you got hands. You might as well use those fingers. Let's back this up with some tips for how to ease into this. Number one, tease them. Most women actually say this is their favorite part of the entire experience. You can caress their inner or outer thighs. Use your mouth to bite the waistband of their underwear. Kiss their inner thighs. Spend as much time here as you want. The longer the better. Now, now, many women can feel uncomfortable receiving for too long. So this is where it's time for you to get into a comfortable position and literally tell her that you are going to keep going until she feels satisfied. Now is also a great time to start giving her compliments about how good she tastes or how much you love her. Now, let's talk consistency. Because this is so important, do not be trying to change it up every couple of seconds. You're just going to put her right back to square one. Once you find a technique or two that is really working, keep at it. And when she says don't stop, she literally means do not stop whatever you are doing. How do you find those good techniques? You probably need a guide. Seriously, this one I'm going to link in the captions makes it so easy. There are tons and tons of techniques for using your hands and your mouth. There are gifts, there are illustrations. It really doesn't get any easier than this. Every woman is going to like different techniques, so I just can't tell you which one is going to be the best. This is where you got to communicate with her. Ask her, do you like this technique or that technique better? How much pressure do you like me to give with my tongue? How fast do you like me to go with my fingers? You got this.