Vanessa Marin (YouTube) discusses how women can encourage male partners to want sex more often. She cites a poll finding that in 45% of male-female relationships the woman has the higher libido, then shares three recommendations from male respondents: (1) women should initiate (men want to be flirted with/teased), (2) allow time to warm up (some men have responsive desire and need physical stimulation to become mentally turned on), and (3) accept refusals without taking it personally.
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Want your man to want to have sex with you more often. Welcome to part two of how to get your man to want to have more sex. In part one, we shared that in 45% of male female relationships, it's actually the woman who has the higher libido. So we polled the men in our community and asked them what would help them want to have sex more often. Here are three more of their answers. I want her to initiate. Men don't want to feel all the pressure to initiate. They want to be flirted with, teased, and seduced to, too. I'd like some time to warm up. A lot of men feel pressured to be ready for sex all the time, so if they're not immediately turned on, they're much more likely to turn you down. But men need space to get turned on and ready for sex too. And some men even have responsive desire, which means that they're not going to be mentally turned on until they're already being physically stimulated. I want her to accept my nose. Men need to feel like it's okay for them to turn down sex because it is. It's so important for you to not throw a fit, get upset, or take it personally.