Will HumphreysVirtual Assistant & Healthcare Recruiting Expert

Be clear on what you want.

Name: Be clear on what you want.
Uploaded: 2025-10-17T21:33:39+00:00
Duration: 31 s
Channel: Will Humphreys
Description: Short YouTube talk by Will Humphreys about the importance of clarity and emotional focus when serving and coaching. He argues that you cannot hold two…

17 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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Short YouTube talk by Will Humphreys about the importance of clarity and emotional focus when serving and coaching. He argues that you cannot hold two opposite internal states (e.g., anxiety vs. serving) at once, and uses dating/recruiting metaphors to illustrate how being option-aware and clear about your intentions gives you power and effectiveness.

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When we're serving, it's impossible for our brains to occupy two feelings at the same time. It's impossible through anxiety. Gravity is the same. The same thing with coaching. When we can get to that point where we're needing and we're serving, we're loving, we have power. Think of recruiting my dating you. What? I'm married. You know, the guy or girl that's, like, desperately, like, on the first thing, like, so is this going somewhere? Like, do you feel this person? The person who's just like, options. Let's see if this is a pitch. It's like, ooh. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's who you want to be. Is clear what you are accomplishing.