Chasing Your Ideal Self ✨

You'll never achieve your ideal self because the closer you get to it, the further it changes a little bit. Understanding that you strive for it, you're never going to reach it and it's okay. That's helped me a lot. So I did that. The Enneagram. I'm a Strength Finders person too, so that's. That's always been something that's super, super helpful. And then to be honest, there's a Jordan Peterson, if you're familiar with him. He's a very much. Yeah. So he's been. Oh, great. He's so wonderful. I've got to see him speak before. But his book 12 Rules of Life and then his subsequent book Beyond Order, that was substantial to me. I just think like understanding the human problem. Right. Just human life is challenging and getting in touch with yourself and who you are and what really helps drive you. And to your point, decisions that you make in your life don't have to be surprises.