Outsource the guilt. Here's Why

I have somebody who comes and cleans my house, and that means I don't have to do it. And then I feel less bad about working more. Like, I feel. I feel fine about working more because someone else, like, does everything in my house.

That's important for people to hear do. If you don't love doing it, don't do it. No matter what kind of cultural shaming your old parents used to give you.

Yeah. And honestly, it's funny because it comes from my mom. She always. When we grew up, we had someone cleaning the house, and she would always tell us and everyone else, I told your dad I married him. I will always work enough to make sure somebody else can clean my house.