A short YouTube monologue by Coach Ambereen focused on cultivating courage and aligning actions with personal values. The speaker introduces an intention for a 'courageous day', describes receiving critical judgments from a close family member, and recounts processing the hurt through self-reflection, walking aloud, and prayer while reiterating personal accountability and growth.
Courageous day is the intention for today. And I pray that courage actually finds you by not only surrendering to the Creator, to something bigger than ourselves, if that's what you believe. If not, of course you do. You would interpret this however you like, but actually aligning that with actions to be taken to live into the best life that we want in the way that we want. A. It's your coach. I'm bring up here super hard and trying to be as diligent as I can be, as I serve families by amplifying the way they think, the way that they act, the way that we show up for ourselves first and foremost, so that way we can impact our loved ones a little bit better. All right, so thanks for tuning in. I appreciate your time, your energy, and your support here. This is a deep one. So if you're not in a place where you can handle deep, by all means, pause this, come back to it, and revisit it when the time is right for you. I actually, in the morning, I made a request out of just pure goodness, and it came back to, in a way, backfire. People would say, right. So what I realized is that if someone is not ready to receive and if someone is interpreting their life the way that they are, they're entitled to it. Entire perceptions, entitled to their judgment, entitled to their opinions and their thoughts. However, I'm not entitled to limit myself by the shortcomings of others, by the beliefs of others and the narratives that others put on their lives, and actually somehow pass into my life. Right. So as family members, often we just kind of take it all in. Whatever they give to us, we just kind of keep taking it in. And it took me a little bit of time to get out of this rut because usually I'm pretty quick about it, but this one, I think this person meant so much to me, and they're so near and dear to my heart that it was difficult to expect that there's a blame game happening here. So there's a lot that's happened in this person's life, and somehow that a lot is translating into, you're the one at fault. Because of you, this happened. I am really good about taking accountability for myself. I think I coach myself more than anybody else in this world. It's always a reflection of how I want to grow. What do I want to learn from this? What's the next action of integrity? How do I want to show up? How will this serve myself and my family? Family. That's the questions I ask myself all the time. And so this person called me out and said all this stuff in their mind, which was their truth. No problem. And they said, yeah, and you. You could talk about being a life coach. You're not one for me or for yourself. And I thought, okay, well, that's a narrative. And because I've been doing the work on myself for years, for decades, I know that that's not my truth. And it took me a lot of courage, a lot of action. So went out for a walk and evented, and I was just babbling out loud. Yes. The people that saw me probably were like, okay, crazy human walking through. But, hey, that's what it was. That's what I needed. I walked. And then I asked God.
