Lead with Intention: Ruba Ardah ~ Brilliant Way: Your Vision My Mission

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Single one of you, welcome to Lead with Intentions where every single week I, your coach Ambreen Hamid shows up here ready to serve. It's truly an honor to have crossed pathways with you again today and I want you to know that I appreciate you for showing up here to serve yourself and prioritize who you are while giving us the most important commodity in the world which is your time. Welcome to Spanglish World network and Xingo TV channels 250 and 251. Please remember to download the Xingo TV app on your respective app stores. IOS, Android, Fire TV lineup, Roku, all the good stuff alongside with any smart TVs 2016 on forward and even available for free across all these platforms. Plus plus the Google Chromecast lineup. As always, please make sure that you are engaging with us. Let us know in this, in this app downloading process what we're doing well and also what we can improve to make your experience one that is truly remarkable. And with that said, I want you to know that this show is set out on expedition to allow us a path to discover the best of who we are. And today our guest is somebody who exudes this and at the most beautiful levels. Her name is somebody you know. Her name is Ruba Arda. She's a Palestinian Jordanian consultant with almost 18 years of experience, armed with a broad based knowledge and skill set of project management, office quality, engineering alongside with coaching. Quality is honestly Ruba's passion and she's always seeking to understand people and to really understand and connect with them in a way where they feel like they're understood, that they're heard and they're appreciated and accepted as they. It is one of our incredible goals in life to help women all across the world find business to be something that's a safe, supportive and a stunning environment that allows them to flourish without changing the essence of who they are. With that said, help me and join me in welcoming Ruba. Welcome to the show. Hi.

Hi Amber. Thank you for your introduction and it's my absolute pleasure to to join you in your show and your interview. So thanks a lot.

You're welcome. Well, every single one of you who's here listening knows that I bring on people who are not just your ordinary, but they have a little bit of extra which makes them into an extraordinary human being. And although I can say wonderful things about Ruba, I haven't known her for so long but whenever we've had an exposure, we forget that time exists because we're so much in conversation with the world. One of the most amazing things that she works on is just bringing awareness to a lot of the issues and challenges that people across the world are facing. With that said, Ruba, I really want you to tell us something about you. Who are you and what is it that you do?

Yeah, okay. Actually, I'm Ruba Arda. I'm a Palestinian Jordanian consultant. I have around 18 years of experience, experience in both quality engineering, PMO management and I published around five research papers in IEEE and Scopus and I got my master's degree in enterprise system engineering. Top of my class actually. I love hiking, writing, reading and I'm passionate about supporting business ladies to reach their level and pass with flying colors. And this is really important and this is the goal of my small business brilliant way that it's going to support business ladies to find their own way to know exactly, to believe in themselves and to reach this kind of higher and higher level in their ambitions and dreams.

And why is that important to you? Why is it important for you to make brilliant way the way of life for these women?

Yeah, okay. Actually, like business ladies, they are really gorgeous and they are really brilliant if they have this kind of safe, supportive and positive environment to flourish. And this part of environment is really important. Like you can't find it everywhere. You need to create it. And you need to believe in your, let's say ability and your capability to create this environment. So the idea that if you are really creative and you have really good skills and powerful skills, but you don't have this kind of environment to support you, to believe in you, to, you're going to do nothing. Even if you work hard and hard and you try just to improve yourself, you feel that you have this kind of limits because you are alone. But if you think about it, you are not alone. You can feel that the taste of life as well and it and just reach lots of people to help them, to serve them, to achieve more and more in this life. But otherwise.

I love what you just said. And one of those things we don't normally say, feel the taste of life. So you're almost kind of bringing our senses into this adventure of being a business, you know, business owner. Especially as a women. Now there is a lot of people, you know who are listening. You know, our audience members here may not know about what is like what is the big deal or what's so impressive about having 18 years of consulting experience living in the Middle east, right. Where most women don't really work, let alone become consultant and kind of figure out their own Pathways into knowing that there's so much more that they can offer this world. So for all of those, you know, all of our listeners who are diligently, hopefully taking these notes, we talk about, you know, the, the power of note taking and really documenting the small little bits and pieces where you find yourself in these interviews alongside what you can learn from them. So can you help us understand that robot a little bit more?

Yeah. Okay, thanks for your question, and it's really a good question, but let me just change it a little bit. It's not about being in the Middle East. It's going to be really difficult for business ladies. Like here in the Middle east and in the Arab countries, we can find lots of successful women in engineering investments, like in different kind of domains, you know, and they, they are really well educated because it's part of our, let's say, mission in this life that you have to, to get a degree. You have to, let's say, work and roll your sleeves to gain more skills and all of that stuff. But maybe it's a little bit challenging, okay? But it's not impossible. It's the point challenging that everyone on this earth will face lots of challenges, will face lots of obstacles, but the point here, how you're going to overcome them, how you're going to succeed in your life and achieve your mission. Okay? So there are lots of strategies, but the main thing that when you sit and choose one of these strategies to apply it, you have to know that you won't, let's say, destroy yourself or lose yourself. You have to protect your true essence while you are overcoming all the challenges. And that's why I'm telling you that business ladies, let's say their mission to achieve, achieve this or to succeed, it's going to be a little bit harder because if they lose themselves, they kind of losing many things or they are kind of losing everything. So any lady in this world, she has to know how to protect herself, how to set her goals, set her intentions, and just to try to go with the flow and over these obstacles or challenges and to be brave to believe in herself. So these kind of factors, she has to have them in their personality. So that's why I'm telling you about me. I feel like it's not about having the certificate or master's degree, but the point is, what's behind this, what kind of love experience. I got it while I'm just overcoming all of these challenges. So this is what matters. Actually, if you think about it, this is the important part. Maybe all the certificates or maybe a number of years of experience. It's just the tech of iceberg. But there are lots of challenges, lots of scenarios, lots of obstacles. And while you are overcoming them, you have to know how to protect yourself and to be humble as well. So this is. Yeah, like, this is what. What's in my mind.

All right. I love. I love how you've kind of reframed my question and said, you know, women here are very successful, but if you're not living in the Middle east, you may not think of it that way, because what's been kind of shared with us. So I love the correction. Thank you very much for that. Now, for all of us who are listening, and they're like, what rules your essence? How would you define an essence of a human being, whether it be man, woman, or however people associate their gender to be?

Yeah, good question, actually. And it's hard to answer, to be honest.

I know. That's why I took you there.

Exactly. It's hard to answer because it's all about the principles. It's all about being yourself, you know, so sometimes. Let me just give you an example. Like, you have a challenge and you have lots of options to overcome this exchange. Which one you're going to choose? So you need to analyze it. You need to think about it. Is this step is going to, let's say, lead me to a fruitful result, but hurting somebody, it's really important. If this, let's say, if you want to think about it, that, yeah, I'm gonna gain this position or I'm gonna just have this success story, but do I, let's say, change my true essence, like chase toxicity? It's also important to think about it. So when you just take, say, any further step, you have to think about it, is it the right step or not this one? Like, if you think about it, is it the right step? Is it undergoes umbrella or maybe is it, like, is it a fruitful result and I'm not going to hurt anyone around me? All of these questions, or let's say all of these ideas, and you just think about it, you're going to succeed without losing yourself if you have some principles that I'm gonna build my third path without, let's say, let's say without any single lie, or maybe without just doing anything wrong in this life, I'm gonna achieve it and I'm gonna just be successful in it. So you have your own principles, you have your own good manners, you have your own role models while you are chasing this kind of Success story. So stick to them. Stick to them. Don't try to change yourself or to be fake or to believe in another, let's say, let's say belief in other beliefs just to please people. You know, you have to have this strength inside yourself and persuade people with little principles, your thoughts, ideas, without trying to change in a very negative way. I'm telling you about the change, that change is really good. As long as you have this exchange in a positive way, just go for it. But if you're going just to change, to have this exchange in a negative way, no, you have to stop yourself.

Yeah, it's almost kind of, it's almost like being integrous with who your authentic self is and making sure that your soul will be happy, right? That the essence, the, the essence of us is something we cannot see but we can definitely feel. Right? You can feel when you're doing something which isn't aligned, you know, with your higher being or you're just like, oh, I kind of should have not have done that. Right? It's kind of like this, Your, your pathway, you know, that North Star people talk about. Now let us know, what does it mean, ruba, to lead with intention or to live an intentional life?

Intentions. When it comes to intentions, I feel like it's, you know, that is spark in your soul to inside your soul to let you have purpose, to do what you do, or let's say to have an action. This is spark in your soul that you set it and you truly believe in it and you feel that it's your purpose in life. This is what I call it intentions, you know, so intentions, it's kind of you will be rewarded because of your intentions. And when you have this kind of great intentions, you feel that your emotion is going to have this greater or maybe fruitful result. And this is the point. The more pure intentions that you have, the more fruitful result you will get at the end. And you know what I like about intentions? When you set your intentions and trying to achieve something or maybe to reach something, okay, pursue your dreams. When you have a challenge or a testicle or you feel vivid or let's say you feel that kind of sadness, you will just remember your intention. It helped you. So it's going to lift you up, it's going to help you overcome the challenge because you know that your intentions are really good, positive, pure, and it's going to help lots of people. So while you are facing these challenges, just think about your intention and don't forget to set your intention in Every single moment in every single step. That why you always intentions. Also, it's not about. Let me just think about it. It's not about your business or your project. It's. You can just consider it for all your life while you are doing your daily activities, why you are doing this, why you are behaving in this way, why you are believing in this, why you are connecting with me, people, all of this stuff, you need to think about it and to set special intentions for it, you know, so intentions, it's. It's not that something simple. It's something really deep. And if you feel it, you can achieve like magical things maybe or something like this. So, yeah, and living like lead by intentions, it's kind of. You have to lead yourself and your intentions. And if you are a leader, you have also to lead the intentions and the spirit of your team.

Yeah, I think being great leaders, really, you have to be very intentional with the way that you show up, not to take things personally. Give people the autonomy to think and act in the way that they do. I love the definition of intention being a spark of the soul, because often, you know, I think as both you and I are, we're Muslims. And so for us, you know, we believe that when you set your attention, you're worshiping in a state of worship. And so it's like free brownie points or free bonus points that you just keep getting because you're like, oh, yeah, I'm just being intentional with my time with washing the dishes, preparing dinner, taking care of the kids, serving my team, whatever it is. Right. So such a broader meaning than just getting something done and being mindful of it.

Yes. And you will be rewarded based on your intentions. If you have this kind of good, positive intentions, you will be rewarded. And the point is maybe it's kind of double salt age. Kind of like sometimes some people, they sit bad or negative intentions, Some people, they have this kind of pure intention. So you have to be aware about your intentions and if they are really good and positive or you need just to think about them, you know?

Yeah. All right, so allow us to tap into your life and share something personal with us so we can get to know you a little bit better. Ruba.

Okay, I'm gonna just ask you this question about me. Let's just spice things up. What do you answer?

I would say the one personal thing is you really took it upon yourself when you saw the injustice happening in. In Palestine. We say Palestine to really educate humans and let them know it doesn't matter. The Skin, it doesn't matter. The religion, it doesn't matter, you know, your body, what matters? At the end of the day, we're humanity and we should really unite in oneness when we see injustice. So I saw that to be something that was very inspirational and very bold for you to have done.

Yes, thanks a lot for sharing this because yeah.

Like.

Being through series of challenges for more than 75 years as Palestinian, it gives us this kind of bravery. And at the same time like you need to deliver your message to the world because we are human, we would like to connect with people. People on this earth tend to connect with each other, understand each other, fear each other, not talk about each other. Maybe Amber in Sometimes I feel like media in one way or another, it changes our behavior in that we tend.

Like.

Most of people, they would like to hear about each other, not to talk with each other. But if we talk to each other and understand exactly the root cause of the problem and to increase our awareness about some issues, it's going to give us really a great life to live. And it's not only about us, about the next generation. Sometimes we have also, like all of us on this earth, we have this kind of great message to deliver not only to our generation, but to other generation. And you can find this actually in all faith in Islam, in Christianity, in Judaism, there is a great message to deliver. So people, they tend to talk to each other to know exactly about the issue and about Palestine. What's happening in Palestine, it's really devastating and it's not that thing that we can understand it as a human. After all, we ask for humanity. And if I would like the world to be changed, I would like them to think about humanity. We are human, we deserve a chance to live in this life, to deliver other message, honest message and we deserve people to hear with us. And when it comes to Palestine, it's not about Palestinian issue, it's a worldwide issue. That's why all people, they need to educate themselves, to ask some questions, to know exactly about what's, what's happening and to know exactly the truth. Because media, it's kind of you have like this true media and lots of dark media. So you need to differentiate between them. So yeah, I took it upon myself to deliver this message and I, I created some thought videos about it and I continue this because you know, our like our beloved homeland, it's kind of sacred part of our souls and all of us, it's not about me as ruba and Palestinian. When it comes to your country and the rain, you feel that you're going to root for it, you're going to do lots of things because we love our country and all of us, all people in this earth, they have this sacred healing for their countries and they have to feel that, yeah, I'm gonna protect it, I'm gonna do something for it. I'm gonna just deliver my message, you know, so it's kind of a humanity as well as it's kind of really true essence as well. Because all people, they have to protect their homeland, their beloved homeland, in a very persuasive, positive, and let's say, great way, great way as well. You have to resist just to return it back, you know, so this is the point. I'm just like, I'm doing some. I'm making actually some short videos on Instagram to talk about Palestine, about the issue, about our culture, that it has really a great culture there, not only for Muslims, but also for Christians.

Yeah, well, now that we're at it, you know, let us know. Let the people who are watching and thank you so very much for still staying tuned in, you know, listening, watching, hearing and understanding this conversation with Ruba. Where can people find you on social media?

Yeah, okay. Actually, on social media, they can find me on a brilliant way on Instagram and also runjust on Instagram as well for Palestine. And also you can find me on LinkedIn with my phone number if anyone would like to contact me as well.

Wonderful. Yeah.

So feel free to send me any message. Yeah, I'll be really grateful.

I. I think that's what a lot of the audience members who are, you know, are here listening. You know, we really do this for, for you. We do this to not only impact your lives, but to also impact ours. So if you find something that resonates, if you find something that just hit home or a new breakthrough or an aha moment, or you feel like you're connected to myself or the person, you know, who's being an intro, who's being interviewed. Drop us a dm, you know, let us know. You can find me at coachumbrina across every single social media platform. And you have no idea the amount of ammunition and joy and love that you give us to let us know that there was something that we did to leave an impact in your life. So never, ever, ever undermine the, you know, the power of just one quick minute to let us, you know, let us know how you're feeling and what you took away from our conversation now. So that's something personal that I said about, about you how would you, you know, share something that's the, that's super personal again as well. But it comes into this form of family that will allow us to get to know that dynamics for you a little bit better. Ruba. Yeah.

Okay. Actually, I'm going to surprise you with my answer here for this question because I have two different mentalities in my family. Like one of them that from my father's side, like supporting ladies and believing them and you know that it's really good for ladies to feel that they are safe and they can do anything. They can do magic actually. But my mom, it's kind of, you know that this kind of standards lots of rules while you are living your life. So that's why I feel like I can understand different kind of parents mentality and I can help ladies in different kind of challenges, you know, so about my, like any family, they believe in me and they just give me the needed support, but in different ways. So if you think about it, that's why also I think about a brilliant way because most of the time we need also to understand ladies environments and how they've been raised in their environment to help them overcome challenges and to help them pass through the flying feathers.

Okay, so you said something that I'm going to actually challenge a little bit here. You said that as parent, as families, do they support us? There are probably a ton of people watching, if not at least a handful of people watching who are like, no, my family does not support me at all. They don't understand me, they don't accept me, they don't embrace me. How would you think your parents have allowed you to feel like you're being supported, you know, so that way we can give them the benefit of the doubt of saying support comes in very different ways.

Yes. Okay. Actually, this question I ask myself a lot, you know, especially when I just think about the idea of brilliant work and how I'm calling it to support business ladies or anyone that he or she needs the support. Because, you know, in one way or.

Another.

We tend to have this kind of, let's say, history or package from the way that we've been raised. There are lots of ways to raise children. And some, let's say parents, they are really cool and they just give you everything you want. And some parents, they have this kind of strict rules and maybe they are really tough in way or another. So if you think about it, all of us, all of us, we have this kind of experience while our parents have been raising us, you know, so about me Actually, I feel like with my dad especially that I'm the only lady in my family with three siblings, brothers. So when. When it comes to any challenge in my life and I just as well to talk about it, my father just says that I know you, you are beautiful the way you are. Don't change yourself to please others. And you can do it all of these kind of words. Maybe you feel like it's really simple words, but it means a lot to me. It resonates with me even if I go to work, even if I go to any place or meet any other people. So the power of words, it gives you this kind of support, it gives you this kind of safety, sense of bravery as well, you know. But when you feel that there are lots of standards, lots of, let's say that you have to be perfect in like you have to do it and you have to do it in a perfect way. It's kind of putting you on a tight spot, you know. And sometimes some people, when they just raise their children, they tend to have lots of orders and let's say clipping their brains. It's not like this. I'm gonna tell you one of my strategies that I have a little niece and I love it so much, you know, and she's four years old and when I just talk to her, I'm trying just to give my touch on her, let's say personality and how their parents trying to raise her up. So I just tell her that we are twins and you have to imitate me in every single scenario. So I explained to her what's the meaning of twins and that we are here on this earth to support each other and to do all good things and you have to imitate pain. So she likes the idea and she starts to imitate me in every single situation without feeling that she. That we are giving her some orders, you know. So this kind of idea is kind of. Sometimes we don't want to feel that we are surrounded by lots of rules or lots of chains or we feel that we are on a tight spot. No, we wouldn't feel that our soul has this kind of things. We can fly, we can do lots of things and nobody can judge us in a very harsh way, you know, so that's why. And if you just. I'm gonna just answer your question about my family, about the Sameite's father. He always says that Rupa, she has this kind of spirit that bigger than anything that wow. She always has her own energy. She always wants. She always wants to serve people to do lots of things, magical things. When I just hear this words, I feel like it's tons of responsibilities, but I can do it and I'm keen too. So this is the point. Words have this kind of color and you have to be wise while you are choosing your words to touch that special part of your soul or other people's soul. When you can raising the children, it's also kind of of leading teams. You know, you can find lots of intersection points between them. As long as you can feel people's energy, you can lead them and you can brace them. So this is the key. It's not about having lots of strategies, standards and no, no, it's not like this. But feeling other people, if they are our children or if they are our team. So feeling them, it gives you great chances to connect, to lead them, to change their behavior, to learn from them, to teach them something, you know, so it's kind of. Well, I'm gonna just say that it's, it's not one way connection. No, it's two ways connection and you have just to have to be patient while you are doing this. And what else about raising children? Don't say that. My parents, they don't believe in me. This part maybe also it was a new question. It's not about if your parent, if your parents believe in you or not. You have to believe in yourself. At certain point you have to live inside yourself and unleash your creativity. At certain point they will be proud of you. So sometimes we need to change the formula upside down. And this is kind of like, let's say it's a wise idea. It's not always I want people to support me. At certain point I have to know how to support myself and how to raise my inner self. Every single person in this life, in this life actually has this little child inside his or her soul, right? And bere it like, do you agree with me on this?

Yes, I do. I'm taking my notes. I'm like, okay, resume exactly.

Like you have to feel this child and to give the needed support for this child inside you. Maybe one of actually TED talks, it was about how to learn or to let's say learn or gain lots of skills by playing. You have to play do something that generates your energy and bring you, let's say this kind of, let's say new adventure. And when I go hiking, I feel like I've learned lots of things because when you go like when you go to any hiker trail, it's kind of journey, your life is Also a journey. While you are going in this high, it's not about your parents with you, to support you climbing this mountain, it's all about you. So at certain point it's not that easy. But you have to look inside yourself and to turn the formula upside down and achieve whatever you want and whatever you believe, then they could be proud of you.

Now, one of the first videos I ever recorded in my life was on this, a topic of be a childlike leader. So I think the inner child is one of the most miraculous and magical things that we have. Yet when we grow up, it's the first thing that leaves. Right. Like when you come into adulthood, you forget to. To live in fullness, to be present, to have fun, to express yourself, to be authentic, to not have to balance this. Yeah, I don't want to do that. But just saying yes because you think that's what people want to hear and no. And I often, you know, talk to. I have this circle of kids that I'm constantly influencing and I often will say, like, don't ever let me, don't ever let me stop and remind me to be more childlike, you know. And yes, it's, it, it has like this shift. I'm not saying to be childish. Right. That means somebody who's irresponsible, who upholding, you know, the commitments that they've made. But being childlike is so different now. You talked about that. As well as being able to raise your inner self and your inner child. Talk to us about a few things that people can do to really feel more liberation and more freedom within their inner selves. So that way they can unleash the most brilliant way of living.

Yeah, okay. It's a super question, by the way. Yes, to be yourself. This is one of the most important, let's say strategies because when you are yourself, you're going to be more confident, you're going to feel that you have lots of skills you can improve and you can also have advantage of and you know yourself, you know what kind of success stories you've already achieved and to achieve this high level of the type brilliancy industry in this life. It's also about set your intentions. We've already discussed that before. You have to know your intentions, why you are doing this, why you are behaving this. And you have to be honest with yourself. This is really important. When you are honest with yourself, you know exactly your weaknesses and your strength. So when it comes to your strength, you know how to achieve something by using this strength. Okay? And you will be really confident while you are living when it comes to your weaknesses, you know exactly or sometimes I'd like to call them that. These kind of skills that they are not your cup of tea. So it's kind of I need to improve them. I need to find some people to learn from them. Maybe I need to have discipline and to change my mindset a little bit to improve this part of my life. So being honest with yourself, it's the key when you just, you are honest with yourself, you know exactly what you're going to do, why you're going to do it and how you're going to do it. It's kind of everything around you is.

Going to be.

And every single, in every single step you're just going to bridge or to take it. It's a double edged sword. Like it has some negativity and it has some positivity. Analyze it, think about it, take your time to understand the circumstances around you. Because different circumstances, it means that you need to take different actions for it. So all of this process to understand yourself, understand the circumstances, being honest with yourself, set your positive and pure intentions, roll up your sleeves and start living life the life that you deserve and you want. Don't ask that my parents, they don't believe in me. Don't see, don't feel that there are lots of toxicity, don't feel that there are lots of injustice in this world. Do your part, just do your part. But if you just keep thinking about all of this toxicity around us, all of this kind of injustice, all of war crimes around us, you going to sit in the corner and keep crying, blaming the world, blaming everyone? No, just do your part. Do it the way you feel that you can add something, you can put the fingerprint. Don't like. While I'm just publishing my short videos in both a brilliant way or Runju Said, I think I have only 100 subscribers of followers, you know, but I feel every single day I feel like it's my part, I have to do it no matter what, no matter how hard the circumstances. But it's my part, I have to do it. If you just think about it, it's going to, it's going to change your life and it's going to change lots of things around you while you are doing. And when you set your intentions, it's not about like when it comes to that, the result or the fruitful result of your intentions. Just leave it for God. If you just surrender like this, you're going to feel this kind of Peace inside you. And this is the thing. What's the meaning of peace inside you? Do you know what's the meaning of that? You feel that there is lots of peace inside you?

Yeah.

Wow.

For me, feeling peace, yeah. For me, feeling peace is surrendering to. To the oneness, surrendering to something greater than me. Because I. In my human brain, which most of us don't lose much of, you know, even the average human being will use like 10% of their brain, if not less. So 90 is up for grabs. Yet my mind cannot understand what will be my future, why this challenge may be in my present. The only thing I can do is exactly what you said. Sit with it, understand it, action it, come up with a plan and execute it. And that plan can just be going to nature and going on a walk to clear my mind, or that plan can be recording a very difficult video and being authentic and well with the people who I'm sharing it with. Right? Or sometimes that plan for me is like, to my kids, I'm like, mama needs a timeout.

Like, peace.

Like, it's literally that, but it's being like this essence of being courageous and allowing yourself to know that everything that comes into this path is meant for my own goodness. It's meant as either learning for me or for me to. To grow into a potential that I don't even. I didn't even know I had.

Exactly. Perfect. I love it. And, you know, what about feeling this kind of peace inside your soul? All of us. All of us, okay, we have this kind of. That we are worshiping and surrender to the greatest power on this earth, right? All of us, you know, so when you feel that this greater power or the great greatest power in this earth is God, and we feel that we are safe, you just surrender. You accept everything and you feel that there is a wisdom behind everything. When you just think about it, yes, there is a wisdom. Maybe I don't know it right now. Maybe I'm not going to know it within, let's say, one year, but ask absolutely. Some certain point, I'm gonna realize that I'm. I'm gonna feel it, that there is a wisdom, you know, this kind of feeling inside you will give you this bravery and courageous to step further, to take an action, to feel that you can do lots of things. I don't like this concept of people when they think that I can't do anything or I can't influence anyone. I don't have a fingerprint or maybe I'm not going to change the world. We don't want you to change the world. We need you just to do your part to feel that you are full of satisfaction, you are grateful. So there is freely a wisdom behind creating you on this earth. You're. You're not nothing. You are a lot of things. But you need to understand it, tap into your creativity, unleash this kind of superpower inside. You don't feel the limits and just spread your wings into fly the way that you feel that you are such a self story.

Well, you and I, I know Ruba can talk forever and ever. Fly, butterfly. It's my. It's my thing. I really believe that everything in life happens with wisdom. And it's been my foundation to realize that. When you have faith, which is, you know what Tawakal coaching is all about, is having faith and then being patient in the divine timing, everything just works itself out. We have this beautiful tradition as we wrap up these conversations, which is going to be rapid fires, but these are questions I will ask you and I want you to answer them in one word or one sentence without even thinking twice. So keep sharing your wisdom as we close this conversation. Ruba, what do you want to leave behind for the world?

Maybe true legacy.

Okay. How will you know you've led an intentional life?

When I feel that I can touch people's life.

Wonderful. If you can create one law that every single person had to follow in this world, what would that law be?

Humanity.

Okay, what is one lesson? And I know it's a lot of lessons, but let's share your one lesson that has made you who you are today, Ruba.

Maybe to have a great issue to read for it, you have to have this belief and you have to have your own issue.

All right? This other one is what is the key to a healthy relationship?

Healthy relationship needs to be yourself. And the key is within. Just be honest with yourself and with other people.

Okay. And so thank you so very much. I'm truly grateful for you being here, for your sharing your wisdom, your time, your, you know, your knowledge. But then the most important thing, I think, is your energy, you know, here with us, which I think is so contagious. So for those of you who've heard thus far, go ahead and reach out to Ruba Ardashi's across Instagram and also across LinkedIn as well. And as the show comes to an end, I would like each and every single one of you to know that I'm truly, truly, truly honored and grateful for you taking the time out to hear this conversation. Of course. Engage with us. Let us know what resonated well with you. And this show can also be heard on Spanglish World Radio Network. Please check out Spanglishworld CA and for all the news and the programming as we close today's conversation, I pray that you've had a remarkable day already and you continue to have one that's just filled with beautiful moments that really you can tap into your own greatness. Also, this show will embark us on a transformative path to be more grateful for the blessings that we have, accept the unfoldings of life and commit to values and dreams which will allow us to tap into our greatness as I have the waql, which is faith in all of us. When we unleash our authenticity, we start to live intentionally. Remember, there's only one of you, so design that life with excellence. Spanglish World. Watch it, hear it, read it, download it. Most importantly, live into it with intentionality to better serve you. Thank you so very much.

Okay, Sam.