Coach Ambereen explains why blame destroys relationships and what works instead: staying calm, asking genuine questions, and trying to understand each other. Successful couples skip the back-and-forth and choose empathy.
The one thing that sets apart successful couples, people who have a great relationship, is their ability to not blame. They actually become calm and relaxed and ask questions and try to understand and accept and embrace versus blame. You've been there, I've been there, we've all been there. When you're just blaming, blaming, it's like a back and forth, blame, blame, blame, blame. It's like a blame game. And guess what? Nobody is going to win that game.
