Coach Ambereen explains why controlling your partner's choices, like what they wear, backfires. Instead of dictating, share what you genuinely like: tell them how an outfit highlights their eyes. They'll feel appreciated rather than managed, and you'll actually get what you want.
Stop taking control of everything because you'll always be fighting for control and you won't really get it to the level that you want. In a marriage, don't really tell your wife what to wear. In a marriage, don't really expect your husband to know. Share these conversations with them. Tell them, tell them, hey, you know what, I really loved it when you wore that dress, and the way that it highlights your eyes makes me so happy. Now she's more likely to do it, but you're not controlling what she's wearing. You're dropping kind of your recommendation and then seeing whatever she decides.
