Master Your Money Mindset

Passive manifestation is the manifestation that you see taught all throughout society, which is ask for what you want and receive it. Now some of the blockers that will come up with passive manifestation and with all manifestation, honestly you don't believe it's possible. So limiting beliefs getting you in the way of actually receiving the thing you can't receive. Like so many people who work with me don't know how to receive. So even though they might want this thing, they actually won't open up to say yes please, I'll have this thing. The timing, it's all in divine timing. And that's the one thing that never changes is.

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Aw Amber, thank you so much for having me. I'm so honored. Like I mentioned in mindset and Limiting Beliefs and how the brain works and what needs to be done in the brain physically to allow your brain to fully support you. I also play in magic in the universe with energy, with manifestation, with infinite abundance. And so what I do is I essentially kind of the overview. The core thing of what I do is help People get in alignment so that they can live as themselves and break through any barriers that are preventing them from achieving whatever level of wealth it is that they desire, no matter what it is, and live as themselves, making money, being them. And it's like, such a foreign concept. Most people are like, who would pay me just to, like, sit? And I'm like, actually, you'd be surprised.

That's interesting, because when you say that to earn money for being who I am, can you describe that a little bit more?

Yes, I'd be happy to. Because many people can't, like, actually logically wrap their minds around what that might potentially look like. Right. So me as a person, I've always loved helping people. Always, like, since I was three years old. Like, I. I've always just been a helper. Like, I was teacher's pet. I was always the one helping clean up the classroom. I was always the one that my friends brought their problems to. And it was so satisfying to me to hold that kind of space for people. And then I loved teaching people about things that I knew. So I've always, like, literally, like, I was running in my preschool daycare, I was running a science club where I was teaching people about biology, and they were paying me 50 cents a week to teach them about biology because that was what I was interested in at the time. So that's what I mean. So, like, me teaching is me being who I am. I would teach, you know, right now. I make enough money on my passive investment income, but I don't have to work. But I don't stop teaching because it's part of who I am. Like, sharing these principles and sharing these philosophies, like, is part of the basic structure and the fabric of who I am. You know, as I deconstruct my filters, I'm a little bit sassy, but also, I am, like, pure love. And also it enrages me when people aren't authentic, but not from a place where I want to attack them, but from a place where I want to kind of, like, bundle them away, take them to a room and be. And be like, you know, babe, what's. What's up? What's going on? Like, why aren't you being yourself? And is there any way that I can support you in being more yourself? Right? So that's like. That's just me. Like, if I go to a party, I'm not sitting there talking about the weather. I'm like, hey, I can notice that there's some ish that you have with your mom. Do you want to talk to me about that? Seriously? Yeah, always. Yeah. I'm like, the weather is the weather. Like, we don't have any control about that. What we do have control over is you living your best life, like starting right now, you know? So like, that's just me, you know, Know. I'm always like, what's holding you back? Why aren't you being your fullest self? Come on, let's go be your fullest self and then let's make tons of money. So that is an example of me being me is just, I would do this anyway. And the fact that I have all these skills makes it just that much easier to support people because they can create transitions and like transformation so quickly, so beautiful.

There's so much to dig into here. The first thing that comes to mind right now is why do you find as you're working with people, you ask the question, why aren't you living your best life? Like, let's go do that. Let's get you on that path. What do you find in your conversations is the biggest reason people aren't stepping into that thing that they know in their soul that they keep getting the nudges, the calling that they need to go after? What holds people back?

Yes. And what a great question. Because it tends to be the same across the board. First of all, they don't know what it is. So they're getting nudges. They're supposed to be moving in a direction, but there's like no real clarity around what direction that is in a direction, but there's like no real clarity around what direction that is. Then if they do know and they're hitting a ceiling or they're hitting a block, or they feel stuck in their income or in their business, they feel trapped, they feel suffocated. It's almost as if they've been created or this could apply to like 50 of my clients are actually working. They're in regular full time jobs. I love it. But so many times, like, we create these golden handcuffs for ourselves where we're not allowed to continue to expand and grow. You know, we build this business structure that requires us to be the same person. We take a job or we keep applying for promotions that eventually get us stuck at a particular ceiling. And we don't know what to do to break through. And we don't believe that it's possible. We don't believe it's possible to make more money unless we sacrifice something. Because that's what we've been taught to believe. Right? We have to sacrifice time. We have to sacrifice happiness time with our family money. We have to move back into suffering. Right. There's so many narratives around, like, what's going to have to change in order for me to do this thing? And there's terror that comes up with that. Right. So fear is a massive blocker for people living their best life. And then on the other end of the spectrum, and very often these coexist at the same time. It's, I am not allowed. I don't deserve who gets to be themselves and have a multimillion dollar business. That's too easy. That's not hard enough. You didn't earn it. I didn't earn it. Right. It's supposed to be hard. It's supposed to be taxing. I'm supposed to put in my sweat equity before I get to this place. Right. And you just see those narratives all across the board. It's not that you don't have to do work. Of course you have to do something. Like, you can't just sit on your sofa and people are going to start handing you millions of dollars. It's that the things that you need to do are fully aligned with your divine plan. So they're fully aligned with your soul. You just need to know how to read your plan. That's the key.

Okay, let's keep going down that. The reading of the plan. What is this plan?

Aha. I thought you would never ask. Amber.

I love how this is. I knew it was going to flow. I said to Abby before we hopped on that, I'm going to just start. We're going to flow with it. I don't have a list of questions over here. I knew it was just going to flow. And you know it, too. This is beautiful.

I love it. It's so good. It's organic, right? This is us being. I love it. Okay, so everybody has what I call an alpha map now. I didn't make that up. I'm an angel communicator. I know it probably mentions it in my bio. I can't remember. But everything that I do is guided by light. I don't make any of this up. I haven't. Like, I don't register or TM any of my thoughts or my ideas or my programs because they're all truth. Like, in my personal opinion, you can't trademark truth. It's not proprietary. Like, we all have access to it. So, like, it's just kind of counterintuitive. We want as many people to have the truth as possible. We don't want to hoard it anyway. So I didn't make any of this up. None of it comes from me. I'm simply the messenger. We all have a highest, most expansive, which means that that would be the path we get the most growth, most resourceful, that would be the path that we have the most money, most impactful. So we leave the biggest footprint, hopefully in a non carbon way possible. And most experiential, we have the most beautiful human experience on all different sides of the pendulum possible. And so I've coined this our Alpha path. And when people say like, what's my path? I don't know what my path is. This is kind of the path that people are referring to. With every single decision that we make, there's a decision that keeps us on our alpha path and there's a decision that takes us off our alpha path. Okay, when we make a decision, oh well, there's a multitude of decisions. You might be faced with 10 choices. There's only one of those choices that keeps you on your highest path and then all of the other choices might take you off your alpha path. But they're still right, they're still valid, right? So lots of people can't coalesce these ideas of destiny and free will. People think it's an either or, you either have a destiny, you either have a divine path or you have free will. No, you have both. Because even though you have this alpha map at every single decision point, which would be thousands per day, we still maintain full free will over which way we decide to go. Is the Alpha map too intense for us right now? Do we want to maybe take a softer deviated path and just kind, kind of breathe and just kind of relax and just kind of nurture? And that doesn't mean that there's no nurturing on the alpha map. It just means that we always have decisions. No one ever makes our choices for us. So that's how they coexist. And the way to read your alpha map? Intuition. Okay? Intuition is the key. And that's the beautiful thing, is that everybody has access to intuition. Everybody has access to their alpha map. And, and the Alpha map is so divinely detailed, we literally don't need to make anything up. That highest version of what we want already exists in full detail down to what should I say today, who should I talk to today, what connections do I need to make? And the beautiful thing is, is the Alpha map is a living, breathing map because it integrates with millions of different people and everybody has free will. So some people don't choose to stay on their alpha path. And that's what our team is doing for us. Right. It's like, okay, if someone over here or these people over here make a bunch of choices that no longer aligns with what was prepared for us because our path was dependent upon them choosing to stay on their alpha map, then our team gets to work and just rearranges everything so that we get to still stay on our alpha map. So it's like a living, breathing system. And that's why intuition is vital, because it's literally like having a Google Maps, and Google is like, turn left, turn right. Oh, there's a foster route. Recalculating, right? So that's what intuition is like. And that's why you're hearing it talked about more and more. And when you listen to me, I drum it in. Like, I'm like, intuition heavy. Because I want everybody who wants to have their most wide, vast human experience, I want everybody to have access to the tools that will take them there.

Oh, this is so good. And one of the things that came to mind as you were speaking is this is unfolding, right, this. You know, you may or you may not know what your plan is. You may have tapped into that already or not. But even if you're still navigating and finding your way, or even if you want to take a bit of a break or a series of events come up in life that necessitate you take a break right now, we go down that slower path for a minute. It's all right on time. There's no shame in this. Grace upon grace upon grace. It is coming for you always.

If you choose it. If you choose it. Yeah. There is absolutely no deviation that you can take from your path that will keep you from your path. The moment you say, okay, I'm ready, and you step up to the plate and you learn how to tap into your intuition, and you say to your team, I'm ready for my alpha mouth. They will literally pop you right back on it. Beautiful.

Okay. This is bringing to mind something that's coming up in my life right now.

Yes.

I shared with you that just yesterday or the day before yesterday, I shared with my husband. Okay. I got to do all the things I know in my being to bring into my reality this answer. Within the next week, I'm getting an answer on something that I want to. To go one way for all sorts of reasons. It's intuitively aligned, aligned with my path and my plan. So as far as I can see right now and I want the response to come back in a certain way. So there's this something that you do called active versus passive manifesting. And from the little bit that I've heard you share on this, I need to actively be manifesting this. What is the difference between this active and passive manifesting?

Thank you for asking that because. Yeah, because I'm workshopping this in, like, the prequel classes for my new program that I'm launching. So passive manifestation is the manifestation that you see taught all throughout society, which is ask for what you want and receive it.

Asking you shall receive.

Yes, asking you shall receive. Right. That's passive manifestation. Now, some of the blockers that will come up with. With passive manifestation and with all manifestation, honestly, you don't believe it's possible. So limiting beliefs getting you in the way of actually receiving the thing you can't receive. Like, so many people who work with me don't know how to receive. So even though they might want this thing, they actually won't open up to say, yes, please, I'll have this thing. The timing, it's all in divine timing. And that's the one thing that never changes. Right? I love this analogy. Like, manifesting something is the same as baking a cake. A cake has a specific amount of time that it has to stay in the oven. It just has to, in order to bake. And now, like, if you keep opening the oven and yelling at the cake, like, why aren't you baking faster? Like, it's not going to actually make the cake bake faster. Doesn't matter if, like, you're not okay with the timing. If that's fine, the cake doesn't care. It's just doing its thing. Doesn't care. It's like, that's nice. And every time you open the oven to yell at it, you're actually making it take longer because you're letting some of the heat out of the oven. So some people, like, we'll get into manifesting. I know we're kind of deviating, but I'll promise I'll come back to active manifesting. But some people get into manifesting. It's so sweet. And I'm definitely. I do this all the time too. And they manifest something. Actually, I don't do this particular bit anymore. They'll ask for something and, you know, their cake is set to take 25 minutes, as all cakes do. And they keep opening, keep checking. It's not happening, it's not happening, it's not happening. And then right at 19 minutes, they're like, it doesn't work. Cakes don't bake. They just don't put them in the oven. Doesn't matter how many times you check it. Like, it doesn't matter how many things you try to make the cake bake faster. It doesn't work. Which is so cute because if you just waited six more minutes, you would see the cakes bake. Guys like, don't worry, honey. Yeah. As long as you're doing your work, as long as you are intuitively aligned, as long as you're taking your aligned steps, there is absolutely no way to prevent it from coming. It is inevitable.

I love this. The other thing I love that's coming to mind for this, the cake and the baking analogy is that you've got to sort of step back. And detachment is something I think a lot. Like, step away from the cake. Like you did the work.

Yes.

Step away from the stove. Like, let's just give it some space. And I talk about, like, physically just stand up, open your arms.

Yes.

And welcome in whatever is meant to be. Release everything. But there's this cake visualization that I have. Like, step. Like you said, step away.

Step away from the way everybody. It's gonna bake. Like, there is no way. Yeah.

Questions asked. Yeah. So many of the clients work with. As we grow businesses and we step into that, like, it's coming for you. Like, you're doing the right things. You're putting the right things in place. Now the speed, like, there are so many variables and things that, okay, we're going to figure that out as we go, but it is coming. You are on the right path. But that belief to trust, you got to have it.

Surrender and that trust, man, those are the things that will, like, if you try to control the process, you'll block it. If you try to control the process, you will interfere. You will literally make it take longer because your team has to rearrange. She did that thing and she wasn't supposed to. So now we have to rearrange existence to still get her the thing that she's asking for, but in a different way. Okay, let's find a new way to do this. Right. Like every time we try to control a situation, we're making it take longer. Also, if we don't do our part, it's not going to come. The universe will absolutely not participate in an entitlement paradigm, which is you don't have to do anything and we'll just give you whatever you want. No. It is a co creation always. We are absolutely 100 required to do our Part. Otherwise they're like, no, no, babe. Like this is a growth paradigm, not an entitlement paradigm.

So beautiful. Growth paradigm, not entitlement.

Yes.

Okay, so we have to show up. Which leads, I am guessing, to this differentiation on the active side versus the past.

Little bit. Little bit. Little bit. Now I do have, like, there is a formula that is our part of our responsibility and I'm happy to share it real quick because it's super simple. The hard thing and why I will never go out of business is because doing the formula is really hard. This is. The formula itself is simple. So I call it the wealth alchemy formula, not TM because I didn't make it up. The wealth alchemy formula. Step one is surrender. That's the hottest part for most of us. Step two is listen to intuition because that's the primary thing that's going to keep you on your alpha map. Step three is take aligned action. It's one thing to listen to your intuition, but when you don't care for what your intuition is telling you to do and you don't do it, then you're not going to get the thing. So take aligned action. Step four is discernment. Our spiritual team is not responsible for helping us figure out who's good, who's bad for us. That is actually our own responsibility. Discernment and then boundaries. Once we figure out who's aligned, who's not aligned, we have to have boundaries. And we have to set boundaries based on what we will and won't allow in our life. And then there have to be consequences for people who refuse to honor and respect our boundaries. Because this is 100 our responsibility. And for those who are only listening, I am gesturing to our body. Our body, our life, our emotions, our life experience is 100% our responsibility and nobody else's. And so some people who feel very helpless to other people's behavior simply haven't learned boundaries and need to. And that's the thing. Step six is self mastery. There are a few key things that need to be in place in order for us to maintain the wealth that we're inviting, maintain the consistent flow of manifesting. And step seven, which I never realized was an actual step until just this moment. So thank you for facilitating that realization is trust. If trust doesn't exist, surrender won't happen. If trust doesn't exist, we will not take aligned action. We won't trust our intuition, we won't trust ourselves, we won't trust our boundaries. Like trust is an absolute, vital piece of the Puzzle. Anyway, so that's just the formula, okay? That is like that's our pot when it comes to manifesting whatever level of wealth. Those are the seven steps. And now you can see simple steps, really hard to do. But talking about active manifesting, in passive manifesting, we're simply acknowledging that abundance is infinite and we're opening up to receive it. And we're practicing asking, right? We frequently won't get if we don't ask. So we ask, we receive. That's the process we get out of our own way. That's essentially like the core steps with active manifesting. We are moving into a state where we are reaching out and taking the thing. So one of the processes of active manifesting that we just did, which got us so far 14 days in like a 60, 65% effective rate. There's a scientific study done that shows when our mind and our heart are in alignment, we vibrate at the same frequency of the earth. And that's science. That's not woo. That's not theory. This is proven. So my team was like popped a little thought into my head, a little wondering, well, that's very interesting. If we vibrate at the same vibration as the Earth, does that mean that the Earth is an extension of us? And if the Earth is simply an extension of us, can I just reach out and grab this million dollars that's in my other pocket and put it in this pocket over here? Can I just reach out and grab that thing that I want that's over there? You know, like if Earth is my house, let's say I want this thing, but it's on the table in the other room. So can I just go to the other room and grab it and then bring it right here in front of me where I want to have it? So that was theory number one, active manifesting. And it is working bananas well.

So good. So you're participating in the drawing it in and is that a visualization? Is it a.

So it's actually like an, it's an energetic and it's a mental process. First of all, you have to get your mind and body in alignment. So it's hypnosis, it's hypnosis, it's neuro linguistic programming. You actually have to do the work. You can't just imagine that they're in alignment and hope that they're going to get an alignment. So you actually have to get your heart and mind in alignment. Then sometimes they're vibrating at different speeds than earth's frequency. So what I did was we Just relaxed into Earth's frequency to allow that integration and that melding to happen, to allow Earth to simply become like more hands, more like just another body or just an extension of our body. And then after that was all complete, we just simply, like, found the thing located where it is on Earth, went, said, come here. Grabbed it. Yeah, come on in. I'm ready for you. Cleared out emotionally, anything that was standing in the way of receiving it, and that was it. So that was the process. Then there's another process which is really fascinating, which is like kind of quantum time travel. So it's soul travel. Up until now, part of passive manifesting includes visualizing the future that you know you want to have. Right? That's part of passive manifesting. You're actually, what you're doing is you're creating markers in your brain that make it more likely for your brain to get on board with creating this thing. But it's very passive. I frequently, like, time jump and time travel with my clients in order to heal, like, different parts of their experience, their soul experience. And so then, as these theories of manifesting were turning from passive to active, and then after everything, everywhere, all at once, it really drilled in the fact that what we want already exists on a different timeline. Literally, not theoretically literally. We on a different timeline, have already experienced and are already in the future that we're trying to create. So then my theory was, well, can we go over there and just grab it and bring it back here? Yeah. Can we hop over? Can we find a wormhole and hop over to that future where we exist and talk to that version of ourselves? What do we need to learn? Like, what's going on? What's missing from this particular manifestation of me that I need to bring over? And that one is also gold, because I talked to a different version of myself who already has my next level goals completed. But she was like, don't forget this. Make sure you focus on that. And it was all about living. She was like, in this experience, I've prioritized resources and impact, and I have neglected growth and experiences, which meant that my relationships had suffered, which meant that my growth had suffered. I'd become obsessed with my impact and influence and the amount of resources that was flowing through me. And it wasn't, like, negative. It was still flowing to really great places. But because I only focused on two of the four other things in my life had suffered. And I was so confused for a second, I was like, wait, isn't this my alpha map? I thought my alpha map would balance all experiences. She was like, no, you're on the alpha map. And I was like, whoa. But yeah, that totally makes sense because everything I do is intuitively based and intuitively aligned. Anyway, she's been giving me guidance. She taught me some like, processes with how to deal with money. She taught me some like, oh my God, I'm like the other version of me who is living that reality actually had some things to teach me.

This is cool. Oh my gosh, I'm obsessed. I love this conversation. One of the things that I find I do that maybe is more in alignment with the active manifesting conversation, that when you describe that alignment between body, heart, mind, like all of the. Oh, I feel it when you know, things are moving at a different pace. And one of the things that I do, it's something called eye motional processes, but it's a meditation combined with eye movement. And I drop into such a beautiful relaxed, like the right aligned vibration, usually very quickly. When I do this, sometimes it takes me a few rounds. But would meditation be something that you would say like, okay, yes, this is going to get us realigned when things feel like they're not spinning. Right?

Yeah. If you want, I mean, I can walk you through the process real quick since you are someone who is very comfortable walking yourself through processes. Plus, I freaking love how you've combined EMDR with meditation, which is stellar.

Yeah. Amanda Lynn, actually a client and, and friend now, a mutual client, now, taught me that. And it's so powerful.

Yeah. Oh, absolutely. EMDR is a type of hypnosis. So it's one of the quickest ways to clear any trauma thoughts or any trauma based emotions. Yeah. Oh, it's beautiful. Yeah, absolutely. It's great. So, okay, here's what you're gonna do. You're gonna bring your. Gonna bring your brain and your heart into the room. So you're just gonna imagine that you go take yourself to a room and you're gonna bring your brain and your heart into the room and you're gonna ask your brain what he needs to. Mine's a he. So I would say, but he needs to communicate in order to be a part of this partnership. It's gotta be a trifecta. We've all gotta work together. And the brain will tell you, and then we ask the heart, what do you need in order to be part of this partnership? The heart tells us, and then we have them turn and we have them look at each other and we have them kind of talk openly, like, what's going on? Like, heart, tell brain what's going on, and then brain receives that and has some kind of reaction. And then if it's an overly aggressive or an overly fearful reaction, then we have to, like, mediate that. And then the brain talks to heart, and it's like, you know, what's up? What's the problem? And so, essentially, between the three.