A man is behind if he lacks a project of his own, spends time gossiping about others instead of building himself, or hasn't reached at least a 10 in some personal benchmark. The message: stop watching other people's lives and start creating your own.
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Hey, listen, listen, listen. If you are a man right now, you need to understand what are the things that are keeping you behind. Number 1, if you cannot take care of yourself, meaning if you don't have an idea, something that is helping you own and create something, then you have fell behind as a man. Doesn't mean that if you're not at the position that you want to be that you're off. Just means that you should at least have the thought, at least have the idea. Number 2, you are behind as a man if all you do is gossip and look at what other people are doing. If you have an opinion on everybody's life except your own, you are far behind because you are not maximizing your full potential because you're so worried about what he and she and everybody else is doing. Last but not least, you are behind as a man if you are not having at least a 10