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Luke Murray argues that lacking confidence isn't a problem to fix but a signal you're growing. He says real development means deliberately doing things where you might fail, and discomfort is the feature that proves it's working.
Luke Murray argues that lacking confidence isn't a problem to fix but a signal you're growing. He says real development means deliberately doing things where you might fail, and discomfort is the feature that proves it's working.
Do you have the feeling of not being confident sometimes? Like the sensation in your body? And does that suck? Well, the last thing I want to talk about is the idea that being not confident or, or not comfortable means that there's something wrong or that there's something to fix. There isn't. I have been good at a lot of things. I've had a lot of success in a lot of areas of my life. A bunch of stuff that was difficult. However, If I'm going to continue to grow, I have to keep putting myself in situations that I don't have recent relevant results at. If you did this all the time, you would just do the same thing for your entire life. And there's nothing wrong with that, but one of my top probably 3 values is growth. And so that means this feeling, which that's what it is, not being confident is a feeling. It is normal. It's not a bug, it's a feature. And if you want to know more about what confidence actually is and watch me just feel that uncomfortable feeling in front of the camera, and you want to know how to get more confidence, then just click on the link below and watch the full video. So to summarize,
