How to End the Year Strong

Hey, everybody. I want to talk to you about how to have your best year ever. How do we have our best year ever, year after year and avoid having an off year, a mid year? So this is really my recipe. Works for me, works for my clients. I'm going to share it with you in just a minute. Remind you again, my name is Bill Gallagher, host of this super groovy Scaling Up Business podcast. Our show comes to you every week. We bring you something to help you grow your company and enjoy the journey of growing your business. So I want to talk to you about our practices around personal strategic planning, how to have your best year ever. So this is totally like, look, you could do it any time of the year, but I think it's particularly important somewhere after the Thanksgiving holiday and before the Christmas break, Christmas, New Year's. And that'll vary by country, depending on your country and traditions and calendar year and your fiscal year and things like that. But take that with the background and think about it. For, for many of us, this is the time to do it. We're dropping the show in that time frame now. This is what we do year after year that I do myself and how it goes and what we do with our clients. So here's the practice. First of all, you want to review the current year. And as you review the current year, especially if you're, if you're doing this, starting this right after Thanksgiving, you'll still have time to finish the year, right? You'll still have some part of December left to do. If you're on a calendar and fiscal year, you'll be thinking about your personal goals and things like that, how to finish them, how to finish them up as you do this. But you want to begin to review as if the year is reaching an end. You can kind of see what it looks like. There's a few things that are useful in reviewing the year and some obvious ones. So obviously the facts, right? Maybe you said your business revenues and profit and milestones were going to be a certain thing. We want to review the facts. We want to know if we were going to weigh a certain amount or have a certain fitness abilities. I was going to run this much or do that or like what? Where am I actually at with all of it? And so it's useful. Another thing, beyond the facts, though, there's a couple other things that are really, really useful. The first one is to flip through your calendar. Most of us, we have rich, detailed calendars that highlight trips and experiences and personal things. If you'll flip back through your calendar and just flip through week by week by week. 52 is not very long to flip through. One of the things that you'll likely notice is that a lot more happened in the year than is maybe top of mind for you as you begin this review. So. So flip through calendar and notice the trips that you, I don't know, have already faded into distant memory. The special events, the parties, the celebrations, things like that. Scan your calendar, look for all of it. Notice as you do it, both the facts and now the calendar. Start to make notes of the highs and lows where the things that I am good about. And you could really just break it into two columns. Highs and lows, wins and misses. Like that. Two columns, two rows, two pages, whatever. It works. Separate the good and the bad for you, right? And. And look, some things will be kind of on the line, but you can just put it clearly into one. If it's just kind of you're not sure, then maybe ignore it because we're really looking for the highs and lows in this things. What are the things we feel really good about? And then here's one new one that has only emerged in the last, I don't know, well, since maybe 2007. Flick through your photo stream. Look at whatever your collection of photos is on your mobile device or your desktop that backs it up or whatever, and you'll notice another angle or an aspect of it. You'll see all the kinds of things that happened in the year and mostly you're going to see good things, but you'll see a range of other kinds of things. So first the facts and the stats and things like that, your dashboards, whatever you take, your plans, review all that stuff, both personal and business, and then look at your calendar and then, and then look at your photo stream and get a full picture and make some notes, good and bad, of whatever's there's there. The things you feel great about, the things you don't feel so good about. Now go share it. Share it with at least one other person, maybe a couple other people. Feel it. Notice how it is. I notice almost every year there are things to be grateful for that I've forgotten about. And then there are things that I'm feeling sad, disappointed, regretful, just like icky, like bad. I wish it had gone a different way and it didn't go that way. And I'm disappointed and I feel bad in lots of different ways. Feel it, lean into it, right? But as you take it all in, you probably will notice that it's better than you maybe thought at first. In general, I think most of us will notice that it's all a little bit better than then we started off thinking. So get all into it, take it all in till you really can own all of it, the good and the bad, till you can accept it, till you can feel into it, till you've had a chance to process it. I always start this right after Thanksgiving. It's a natural time. We start to see the year ending, families gathered, family's gone away. And then I start to lean into, okay, there are things to finish, but there's all. It's time to begin. And I give myself a lot of time to go through this process. Then sometime, usually after the Christmas and Hanukkah break, depending on how those fall and both of those kind of affect us and travel and family and things like that. And you could have others, depending on your background, tradition and like that. But right after that, I set aside a time. I maybe even begin it sooner, speculating on the future, the year ahead. I want to set aside a time and space for visioning between the end of December and the beginning of January 2nd, right, January 1st, January 2nd, depending on. I don't do a whole lot for the New Year's evening and day. That's just a time to just turn the page for me. It's not a super drunk get out and hoot and holler anymore at this age of my life. But I want to set aside time and space. So place it like a mountaintop, a beautiful view, a warm place by the sea, on the beach, I don't know, someplace that feels really great, abundant, generous, blessed, that I'm grateful for. And I want to dedicate a little time to doing a little visioning for myself. So time and space in the best place possible at the best time of day, free from distraction, with support, permission of it. Not like peeling away way to do this and cramming it in between other things. But really designed well to give me place to invent my life, continually reinvent my life. All right, so what are we going to do there? We're going to first settle in, breathe, right? Feel my body, settle my body. I'm going to do something called a body scan. I don't know if you've done this kind of a thing before, but it's a kind of a meditation practice where we start maybe at our toes and we move up and through our body, noticing and relaxing our body, slowly taking images, inventory of things, settling it, connecting to all of the feelings that we have in our body, through the toes, up the legs, through the torso, out to the fingertips, up to the shoulders, into the head and scalp and all that. And so. And then more breathing through the whole thing. I'm pretty slow with that. You could look it up. You could, you could. If you're not familiar with it or if you have a different practice, that's fine, too. But something that really gives you plenty of time, not rush to really kind of settle into something, settle in and center. And if you're curious about that, when you're not familiar with it, I don't know, maybe type in body scan to your favorite AI tool or to Google or to YouTube and you could find some instructional walkthrough specifically on that. You know, I could. I could maybe take 10 minutes or more on a body scan and really kind of be in a groovy place. I could also have. Sometimes you may have a practice where you have, like a safe space or your own, like, personal creative lab or studio in your mind, and you could go to that place after a relaxation and then begin to design and imagine. I think the best thing to do is to imagine 10 years out. Start way out. 10 years, about the right time. If you're particularly young, if you're Fairly young, thinking 10 years out might be a little challenging, confronting, oh, I can't think that far. I can only go five years, right? You want to go as far. But I suggest no matter whether you're 20 or whatever, go 10 years out. So if you're 20, think about being 30. If you're 25, think 35, 30, 40, 40, 50, 60, 70. Like that. Go 10 years out at whatever age you are and imagine your life, right? How old will you be? Family members, a spouse, a partner, children. No children. Your parents, your extended family? How old will everybody be? Sometimes that creates a picture of things, of dealing with stages of education, of life, of certain life events and things like that. And that's useful and interesting, right? I think about, like, taking care of my parents today, but I'm at an age and my parents won't be alive in 10 years. But I suppose they could be, but it's unlikely, right? So I don't imagine myself dealing with them to the same degree. I think about my kids being at a different stage of life and not dealing with the same things that I'm dealing with today. So whatever age, whatever it is, picture yourself in your life. Then think about, where do you live? What does that look like? What is your house? Apartment like? Are you in the same one? Have you improved it? What do you really want? Right. Ten years from now, with a lot of circumstances aside, what kind of a place do you want to be living in? What do you want and what does it look like? Feel like that? Think about your, your primary. If you have a partner, a wife, husband, whatever. Primary, like romantic relationship, what does that look like? If you don't have one, do you want one? What does that look like? If you. It's one way and you'd like it to be in a whole new chapter, Imagine that. What do you really want it to look like? What's the person? How does it go? How does it feel like that? Start to think about then about your family, right? How's your family changed over time? Who are they? What are you dealing with in your family? What do you really want in terms of family and the quality of family? And then think about not just who's there and how old they are and like that kind of thing, but what you do with them. What are your family traditions and practices? How's that evolved over the last 10 years? Then go out maybe to friends and the kinds of people you live with and play with and what you do with the friends in your life. And then you could go naturally into your hobbies, right? What are your personal hobbies and that kind of thing. And then that leads kind of naturally to your health and fitness. What are your health and fitness goals? What does it look like? What do you really want your life to look like at that age? Right. I, you know, I think about each of those steps and then from my health and fitness, it's pretty natural to go to then my work. How do I spend my time? So I spend a lot of time on myself and where I live and who I love and, and my family and my friends and what I do for fun. And then I go into my health and my fitness and then I start to think about my work and my work life and where it was my role and then what does my business look like? Most of you all have businesses here or departments within businesses. What does that look like and how does it feel and how's it evolved over 10 years? Or maybe you imagine yourself exiting in the next few years and you're looking back on the business that you created. Great. Imagine that and how it looks today after you. So we imagine our work and then that naturally leads us to our finances and our security. Right? So what do your finances look like? What is your security? And I think even more than like a number here, it's useful to have a picture of what the number buys you. So I want to be able to live at this level and this way, like be able to afford these things. That's much more useful for most of us to think about that than an arbitrary. I want this much money in my account and that kind of thing. So what would it buy you? And then that, that'll translate to a particular number and help you set a goal. And then you might think even past your work and then your money and your financial security. Think about then your, your. Your life purpose and your spirituality. What are your practices around purple purpose and spirituality? If you have a formal religious practice, then you'll have something there. If you don't have that, there's an expression of your life's purpose or quality that might pull through all those things and alter all of those things. And so go there next and think about that. Now the order of these things. I don't know. With practice that pretty much works. But you could change it as suits you. It doesn't matter really what order. But inspecting and creating all these kinds of things can be really helpful place to look. So we're creating a 10 year picture. We're really envisioning what do we want 10 years from now when you're settled with all that, when you've exhausted it kind of and imagined all the little pieces and details and you really could go think about what does it look like, sound like, feel like, smell like. Go to all the senses of your life and all those different areas. Imagine all the details, the trips, the family holidays, the events, the fun, the play, the hobby. Like get a rich picture of all of it. When you're settled with that, allow your eyes to open and then just write like crazy. Listen, empty your mind, write wildly, don't edit or correct anything at all. Just write, write, write, write, write. You could also dictate. I think handwriting even now is best for most of us. The thing I probably least do is type it out, but so I'd handwriter or dictate it and be as messy as you can. Just empty your mind and keep like writing, writing, writing till you've got nothing left. And then you could use AI to edit it so I can upload pictures of my writing or I can insert my transcribe my dictated thing into another tool and I can have AI transcribe it, whether it be handwriting or dictation, and clean it up for me so I can go ahead and clean up the thing considerably. You could also have it write it in A future past based language like it's 2035 and I'm 71 years old and I'm speaking for myself now and I'm looking back on my life and what I really love about the last period is that it's gone like this and I've done that and my, my marriages like this and my family like I could speak about how it, the spaces we went through and like that from that AI can translate that and write that in a format you could say, right in a vivid vision style. From the future looking back. It would be a useful way to prompt AI after the basic transcription to clean it up format. It can create something really beautiful with what you've said, with what you've imagined, not giving you things. All right, from that then. And you could use AI for this. What are some likely and reasonable goals that I might set for my life in each of these areas? Just for one year from now, how would I get started? What should I take on? So now, rather than just fixing the problems and frustrations of the last year, I look forward at where I want to be in 10 years. And that changes the lens significantly. Now we are, as Stephen Covey says, planning for from the starting with the end in mind, planning from the future looking back. So we stand in the space and the mindset of the creation of what we want 10 years out, we look back and we say what's reasonable to take on then for the next year? What am I going to do in the year ahead? So we set some one year goals and then from that. And again AI can be very useful for this is say what are some new daily habits, daily and weekly habits that I would want to undertake now to accomplish those things if my life look like that. And you might need to tell AI so I want to do this, but today I only do this thing and I'm in this situation. So you can problem solve and create and brainstorm some new habits and steps. Years ago I wanted to transform my fitness. I was going to take on triathlons and I went on to run about 45 triathlons and endurance events over about a 10 year period. In the beginning it was really hard. I would forget them, I would miss them, I would escape them because I would wake up in the morning and then I dawdle around getting ready to do the workout and then I'd shorten it or miss it entirely with distractions and my add self. So a key thing that made all the difference in the world was a new habit to prepare everything the Night before, if I was taking a bike ride in the morning and pump up the tires, I'd set it out. I put my bike clothes on it, I'd fill the water bottles and I'd stick those in the refrigerator. Now in the morning, just pull on the clothes that's laid there, grab the water bottles, get on the bike and go. Same thing with running, swimming, a gym workout. Whatever it was I was going to do, setting it up the night before set me up for success. It was a simple habit change that I did. So I go through this visioning. I've done my review. Now I envision 10 years out. I set some one year goals. I start to then change my habits in the here and now. That'll do it. There's one more thing. Many of you will create a plan from this and a detailed thing in this area that's been less effective for me because of my wiring. Some of you are really great at this. People like my friend Jack Daly or Annie Bailey or that kind of thing will create a more detailed plan for this kind of thing. I usually have a detailed plan, but the thing that drives me the most is now creating a visual. So once I've got my annual, I start to create and I've got some new habits that I envision and imagine. I'll create a visual collage and, and it's just done on a page and I slap images. You can use a, you can use a slide tool or a word app and just move images around and resize them and crop them for the major areas that I want. What does my relationship look like, my family look like, my travel, my hobbies, all kinds of things I create or find images. You can find images on Google, you can make images on things like mid journey, you can do all kinds of things like that. I put all that stuff together, I create a visual and that I print out and I stick in bold color in my closet here, next to my desk, inside the door of the medicine cabinet in my bathroom, like a few places where I'm going to see it regularly and then all year long. That's there as a visual reminder to make me feel into my goals and intentions for the year ahead. That's it. That's how to have your best year ever. How to accomplish more of what you actually set out to accomplish is to first get in a clean space, like clean the space out, review the year, be eyes wide open and be able to set the past aside, leave yourself with something fresh for the future. Imagine 10 years out, create some reasonable goals for one year and then some habit changes and then find a way to keep it alive with a plan and or a visual like that. I think that works for me year after year. It's likely to work for you. Works for so many of the people that we work with. I hope that's helpful. 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