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Billy Sticker argues that desire alone won't get you what you want. You need to actually expect it to happen. If you don't genuinely anticipate a good relationship or job, your wanting it won't make it real.

Billy Sticker argues that desire alone won't get you what you want. You need to actually expect it to happen. If you don't genuinely anticipate a good relationship or job, your wanting it won't make it real.
It doesn't matter what you desire, it matters what you expect. Right. You can desire to have a great relationship with your spouse. You can desire to have a great job. But if you don't expect to have a great relationship with your spouse, you— it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what you desire, it's what you expect. So you have to make sure that That whatever it is you're desiring, that you actually can expect to be there.